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Can't get a job anywhere

  • 17-01-2012 8:09pm
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    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi Im not sure why Im writing, whether its to vent or just see if anyone knows what to do.

    Im 21 and recently just graduated from university. Got a really good degree but in the field Im specified in, it requires me to do a postgrad which I dont have enough money for right now. so I had to come home and find a job here to be able to afford it.
    Im not apllicable for any of these grants ect, so there arent an option.

    I got a job before christmas, which I liked, but with the current economy was let go once the new hit after the sales.
    I feel so down right now, Ive handed out over a hundred cv's, looked online and I cant get anything except the usual "we'll hold your cv on file" line.

    Im so unhappy that its really killing me. I miss seeing my friends who live where I went to college, Ive no job, no social life right now and going backto college isnt an option until I get a job and save. Ive worked as a general operative and retail assistant/waitress, so they are the only options open to me too experience wise.

    I really need a job because right now theres nothing for me. never thought after all the work I put in, would I be stuck in this rut.
    Is there anything else I can do or look for something that Ive left out. Ive already handed out so many cv's, went onto Jobs.ie and the likes. Its really daunting and soul crushing at this stage. thanks for reading this


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,195 ✭✭✭Corruptedmorals


    To be honest, retail is a dead industry at this point. Plenty of shops are severely understaffed (all year round but worse now) because hours are slashed so badly, not to mention the shops uncertain how long more they can last. Supermarkets are your best bet because turnover and staff numbers are highest but you'd be waiting on people to emigrate because otherwise, they won't bother hiring in the quiet period. I work for one in drapery, and have done in another branch for years- they really will not hire until summer and even then maybe wait until it picks up in august/september.

    I'm not sure how seasonal the catering industry is though. What I would recommend (apart from keep on trying) is also try places like charity shops. Can you apply for work experience in your field that you want to do the postgrad in/work in? Most companies would jump at the chance of delegating work for free. It will look amazing on your CV and could swing the postgrad altogether when you do decide to apply. I'm in much the same position as you, I cannot afford to do the postgrad but for me it's a bit pointless anyway because it will lead to nothing because the entire career at the end of it is not hiring and hasn't for years. I got a job after a long summer trying- bearing in mind I had 3 years retail experience I got absolutely nowhere, so many rejections, and eventually ended up in a different branch of the same company. It's really not easy for anyone, please don't despair.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 77 ✭✭finfinfin


    call centres.its minimum wage or close enough to it.if your good at selling you could make commission.decent commission.you'll earn more than sitting at home picking your stones all day.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    OP here. Well Ive tried everywhere and I cant get work associated with my field, you need various qualifications ect. I wont have it until my postgrad comes through.

    Im just at my wits end. I'm not being fussy or anything. Id work any job to save and get my life back in the right path towards my career and happiness. But right now Im going crazy,living at home with no income or social life. Its hell to be honest.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,194 ✭✭✭saa


    Similar situation:

    Almost 21, I've never been able to get or hold onto a job (my anxiety used to be bad)
    Finishing a degree, will have to work to save for a masters.
    but I think it was important for me to stop blaming myself for the work situation.

    If you have a stable place to live and you can budget out your money to get by this will allow you to deserve not to worry if you have a plan and will get by anything else is a bonus, I'm sorry but I just don't think its fair to take on the weight of where is my career going, why aren't things happening, why am I being rejected.. all that just holds me back personally.

    I thought hey what can I do today, this week but maybe something you have to deal with it "having nothing" without a job, its dangerous to get yourself down because of that as you may have trouble finding work later on your work might well be precarious, you may not get into the field of work you want and be bitter over settling because a job cannot fully fuel our purpose for enjoying life, feeling calm etc.

    this is a transitional period from college to working and there are not the same it would help to know what area of work you're in.

    I can throw out some idea's

    -Take time out to relax, stop blaming yourself over the job situation.
    -Re-asses your CV, if you did it yourself get someone else to give an honest opinion on it
    -cliches acomin.. find a hobby, join a club even if they're older you're an adult now and not having anything to look forward to will drive you crazy.
    -volunteer
    -set up something work related if applicable.
    -make a routine or rota of shifts for job searching so it doesn't seep into your free time, take 3 day weekends as a perk and don't even think about the economy, jobs etc.
    -meditate, yeah it sounds lame but its the best drug
    -exercise, the weather is getting better nothing like a walk to feel like you've actually done something productive (or team sports if its your thing)

    You need structure or you may fall into the unemployment black hole, no will to get up til noon, dragging yourself around, feeling defeated, theres no hope, everything is bad and hurts, I feel so disconnected from everyone and the real world etc.

    Those feelings are fine but if you give into them they do not give you anything good even though they seem like the easier option imo things like them makes like more difficult and its hard when you don't see any near future work wise but that will come in time, you're living not just living to work.

    But one BIG thing about this I suspect is not having your friends around, I struggled with that losing my secondary school friends but I suppose things change and by getting involved in new things you eventually meet new people and you'll be looking back at this time in a few years and laughing thinking oh if only I could tell my younger self everything was going to be okay.

    And about the post grad, I'm going to take my time to save up, its a great thing for me because when you start working you never know where you could end up you might want to retrain instead who knows with the way job ops might be in 5 years.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,182 ✭✭✭nyarlothothep


    Hi OP, I kinda know what you're going through, when I graduated my friends were gone their respective ways, no job for a few months etc. This felt like a knock after having gone through a structured set of events, school, college, with a fair ratio between work and results, the work you put equaled the result you got out. Fair, predictable and stable. But given the overflow of graduates and the lack of jobs in a services based economy, well its very hard to find work and that ratio of fairness dissapears, especially given that there are exploits in the quest for jobs, eg who you know, not what you know. Just keep trying though, you may not find a job but over time you can rebuild your social circle. This time will pass, the future is inevitable and with it change.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    OP here. I agree with a lot of the posts. But the issue is I really need a job. I dont have any time for self meditation and relaxation you see. I know about the slow down after college and how different the lifestyle is. But its soul destroying to get so many rejections, job wise especially when working and independence and supporting yourself is a vital part of happiness too I believe.

    Socially, its a lot easier to say go out, join things, make a new circle. But I have my friends, and a best friend where I went to Uni, that is my best friend, who I trust and miss terribly. Im all for making friends, but it didnt happen for me here, when I lived here and it isnt now. Plus Im happy with my current friendships. Its just distance thats the problem. Also there arent any societies or clubs in my area and the nearest city, requires transport which I dont have the money to finance either right now.

    Im really praying something comes up or I get a call back for a job. Ive tried so hard. Reality is really hard to accept sometimes.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,195 ✭✭✭Corruptedmorals


    Well then would you consider working in a call-centre or working for a charity on the street? These jobs need confidence particularly the street ones or else they will get you down to the point where it's not worth it. Even just to fill in the time while you keep sending out your CV.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 56 ✭✭WhiteRose90


    I'm in more or less the same boat as you. I'm also 21yo and have a qualification from college/courses etc but no job as of yet. Just do what I do which is to keep trying. Keep those CV's going out to shops and online, looking on the Fas website for work etc.

    Right now I'm looking for a job but considering getting back into education for a few reasons. Mainly because all of the jobs advertised in the papers are for things I'm not currently qualified for and for something constructive to do with my time. Don't let it worry you too much. Just remember you're definately not the only person in this situation and I'm sure we'll get there eventually :) Good luck!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Well then would you consider working in a call-centre or working for a charity on the street? These jobs need confidence particularly the street ones or else they will get you down to the point where it's not worth it. Even just to fill in the time while you keep sending out your CV.

    Certainly, I would just be wary of these call center jobs and how difficult they may be, particularly since they are comission based and most people hang up on such phone calls. I just really need to save and get things in motion again. Where do I find/research these call centres.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,123 ✭✭✭Ellie2008


    Hi OP,

    Two questions:

    What did you study?
    Do you live urban/rural?

    If urban would you consider applying to be a carer to an elderly person? My little sister does it it helps her through her postgrad and it pays well like €10 an hour, would look good on the CV as well.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Ellie2008 wrote: »
    Hi OP,

    Two questions:

    What did you study?
    Do you live urban/rural?

    If urban would you consider applying to be a carer to an elderly person? My little sister does it it helps her through her postgrad and it pays well like €10 an hour, would look good on the CV as well.

    Hi, I did a general arts degree, did joint honours in two subjects. So Im working towards becoming a teacher. At the moment, I live rural. had to move home, due to finances.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,123 ✭✭✭Ellie2008


    Hi, I did a general arts degree, did joint honours in two subjects. So Im working towards becoming a teacher. At the moment, I live rural. had to move home, due to finances.


    Ok I see the problem then, if you re really stuck why not work for free for a short while, I got my student job by doing work experience in a shop over Christmas, mind you I'm a few years older than you so jobs weren't really difficult to come by back then but its still an idea. I hope you've thought of everything, any family or friends have a business or your parents friends etc. that would help you out. What about babysitting? Could you sleep on a friends floor for a while in a more urban area and apply for jobs there?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 159 ✭✭magooly


    Would you consider TEFL in Asia? Korea and China are hot right now and a whole lot of fun. You'll easily save what you need in Korea, and it's full of like minded graduates.

    You have a degree which is the only requirement for a visa.

    Don't waste your youth here.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Going abroad or working for free you see, isnt an option here, as Ive no money whatsoever and my family alone are fustrated that Im not working and home ect. Its an awful situation. Im going to have to keep looking I guess.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,830 ✭✭✭✭Taltos


    OP - in the meantime while looking for a job I suggest you keep busy with something that will add to your CV - volunteering, community work, etc.

    This will not only help your CV - but it will get you out of the house and yes while you won't have cash coming in - it will help how you view yourself and may help your family situation as well as then you won't appear to be underfoot.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,123 ✭✭✭Ellie2008


    Going abroad or working for free you see, isnt an option here, as Ive no money whatsoever and my family alone are fustrated that Im not working and home ect. Its an awful situation. Im going to have to keep looking I guess.

    OP your family should have more sympathy you re 21 with I presume very little experience living in a rural area, what rational person would think that would be easy? I think going away to teach English was a great suggestion, you'd only need a little money to get you started, you could try and borrow it from Credit Union, Bank, Family. Considering you want to be a teacher it would be invaluable experience.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 520 ✭✭✭damselnat


    OP, I was in your position up until very recently, as was my uncle who'd just completed a PhD. I graduated last year, did a very good degree, but one that, if I wished to work in that sector specifically (which I most certainly don't!! But if I did, probably plenty of jobs) I would need a postgrad, which I couldn't afford and frankly I was sick to death of studying and couldn't wait to get out into the world and earn some money and independence. I spent months and months traipsing around, looking for a job *anywhere*, any job at all. I applied for the dole but I wasn't eligible. I was all over certain websites constantly making applications, applying for intern programs, applying in the UK. I took a TEFL course as a last resort, thinking I would do it and head off to China or somewhere for a couple of years, and return with more experience and possibly/hopefully to a better jobs market, even though teaching was something I most certainly didn't want to do, but I was ready to do nearly anything as I said! My parents were getting just as frustrated as I was, lots of tension and arguments, they thought I wasn't trying, was lazy, should go abroad, etc etc.

    But then I found one particular website, gradireland.com, very useful website as it's specifically employers looking for people with degrees. I made a few applications on this and got four job interviews, after months of applying and getting *none*. From these, I got offered three! I now have a very good, "proper" job and loving being financially independent and having moved back to where I went to uni and a lot of my friends.

    I'm not writing this to gloat or boast, I'm writing it to say there are (some) jobs out there, and if you have a degree, make the most out of it, even if you don't use it for the specific purposes it trained you. A third level education is a very valuable and privileged thing to have, whatever people may say, and if you learn to sell it properly you can make a convincing case for how it fits into something totally unrelated! For instance, you've spent three or four years working to deadlines, working under pressure (exams/dissertations/presentations), working in teams (hopefully), being involved socially, prioritising work that needs to be done, leading your own learning and work schedule. These are all thing (and there are a lot more) that you can use from your time as a student to sell yourself to a potential employer.

    Get yourself a good book from the library on how to do up CVs - this is your first selling point after all. Sit down and spend some time on it, ask others (somebody good at English in school perhaps, or creative writing, who has a way with words) to help. Do that first. Target each one for each individual application, don't send them out en masse, think about what you need to emphasise in each application and tailor the CV to that. Get yourself a good book on interview technique - I found this http://www.amazon.co.uk/Interview-Book-Definitive-Perfect-Technique/dp/0273721755/ref=pd_sim_b_16 to be excellent. Spend a couple of days going through the book, writing out answers to the questions using things that apply to you and use a bit of imagination. I don't mean lie (veeery bad idea), but think outside the box. Got involved in a society? You used your initiative. Got an A in one subject? Why, you must have the skills needed to be good at that subject! Think about it, think about how anything in your life has taught you lessons you can apply to any potential job. This is all stuff that I did, and I like to think it paid off! My uncle that I mentioned earlier had the same problem, he has a job now too, again using that site mentioned above to make applications, which is I why mentioned him and that particular site, it does seem to be very a good one from what I can tell, unlike other more high profile ones that are anything and everything, and target everyone.

    I hope some of this will help, if nothing else to show that there was at least someone else in your position (there's lots and lots of course), and it's all so far worked out well for me, I have a job I never even dreamed of getting, let alone my first one straight out of college. Hang in there, have hope, and put in the elbow grease! I really believe the CV and interview prep really pays off, you can really target yourself for each individual employer, and you will hopefully stand out from all the people churning out the same CV to every single person! Think of it as a sport, to beat the compeitiors you don't always have to be better, but always be better prepared ;)
    I really wish you the best of luck, it's a tough, tough market out there but it is still a market after all...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    damselnat wrote: »
    OP, I was in your position up until very recently, as was my uncle who'd just completed a PhD. I graduated last year, did a very good degree, but one that, if I wished to work in that sector specifically (which I most certainly don't!! But if I did, probably plenty of jobs) I would need a postgrad, which I couldn't afford and frankly I was sick to death of studying and couldn't wait to get out into the world and earn some money and independence. I spent months and months traipsing around, looking for a job *anywhere*, any job at all. I applied for the dole but I wasn't eligible. I was all over certain websites constantly making applications, applying for intern programs, applying in the UK. I took a TEFL course as a last resort, thinking I would do it and head off to China or somewhere for a couple of years, and return with more experience and possibly/hopefully to a better jobs market, even though teaching was something I most certainly didn't want to do, but I was ready to do nearly anything as I said! My parents were getting just as frustrated as I was, lots of tension and arguments, they thought I wasn't trying, was lazy, should go abroad, etc etc.

    But then I found one particular website, gradireland.com, very useful website as it's specifically employers looking for people with degrees. I made a few applications on this and got four job interviews, after months of applying and getting *none*. From these, I got offered three! I now have a very good, "proper" job and loving being financially independent and having moved back to where I went to uni and a lot of my friends.

    I'm not writing this to gloat or boast, I'm writing it to say there are (some) jobs out there, and if you have a degree, make the most out of it, even if you don't use it for the specific purposes it trained you. A third level education is a very valuable and privileged thing to have, whatever people may say, and if you learn to sell it properly you can make a convincing case for how it fits into something totally unrelated! For instance, you've spent three or four years working to deadlines, working under pressure (exams/dissertations/presentations), working in teams (hopefully), being involved socially, prioritising work that needs to be done, leading your own learning and work schedule. These are all thing (and there are a lot more) that you can use from your time as a student to sell yourself to a potential employer.

    Get yourself a good book from the library on how to do up CVs - this is your first selling point after all. Sit down and spend some time on it, ask others (somebody good at English in school perhaps, or creative writing, who has a way with words) to help. Do that first. Target each one for each individual application, don't send them out en masse, think about what you need to emphasise in each application and tailor the CV to that. Get yourself a good book on interview technique - I found this http://www.amazon.co.uk/Interview-Book-Definitive-Perfect-Technique/dp/0273721755/ref=pd_sim_b_16 to be excellent. Spend a couple of days going through the book, writing out answers to the questions using things that apply to you and use a bit of imagination. I don't mean lie (veeery bad idea), but think outside the box. Got involved in a society? You used your initiative. Got an A in one subject? Why, you must have the skills needed to be good at that subject! Think about it, think about how anything in your life has taught you lessons you can apply to any potential job. This is all stuff that I did, and I like to think it paid off! My uncle that I mentioned earlier had the same problem, he has a job now too, again using that site mentioned above to make applications, which is I why mentioned him and that particular site, it does seem to be very a good one from what I can tell, unlike other more high profile ones that are anything and everything, and target everyone.

    I hope some of this will help, if nothing else to show that there was at least someone else in your position (there's lots and lots of course), and it's all so far worked out well for me, I have a job I never even dreamed of getting, let alone my first one straight out of college. Hang in there, have hope, and put in the elbow grease! I really believe the CV and interview prep really pays off, you can really target yourself for each individual employer, and you will hopefully stand out from all the people churning out the same CV to every single person! Think of it as a sport, to beat the compeitiors you don't always have to be better, but always be better prepared ;)
    I really wish you the best of luck, it's a tough, tough market out there but it is still a market after all...[/QUOTE

    OP here, amazing advice thank you. My degree is a 2:1 in english and history. So I feel gradireland.com wont help me as it seems to be targeted towards business and science related degrees.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 520 ✭✭✭damselnat


    [/QUOTE]

    OP here, amazing advice thank you. My degree is a 2:1 in english and history. So I feel gradireland.com wont help me as it seems to be targeted towards business and science related degrees.[/QUOTE]

    But you can go into business. You need to be able to think outside the box when you're applying for jobs as I said, you have a good level of degree, you've done English, surely some sort of abstract thinking was used for this? As I said, just by studying for 3 years you have all sorts of transferrable skills, regardless of the subject you studied. For instance, my degree is Economics. One of the jobs I got offered was in an admin position in a specialist hospital, cause I sold myself on all the organisation and prioritising and team work I did during my degree, they weren't interested in the fact I could (or couldn't) run a regression or draw a graph or not....The job I have got, in financial services, is sort of related to what I studied, but the reality is (according to my boss) that I got the job because I filled the criteria of having the attitude they wanted in the office, not the technical skill I brought (because I didn't!). At the end of the day, people will employ someone they want to work with. But what you need to get to that point is the right CV to get the interview. Apply for stuff you don't think you'll get, you never know, and any interview experience is good practice. The job I ended up with was not one I wanted or expected to get, but I got the interview, and once I was in there I was able to show my boss that I'm the sort of person he wants working in the office. Attitude is so important here OP, it's so hard to beat yourself down, you have a great degree that's taught you so many skills, not just information (how good do you have to be at analysis to get a good English degree? I think fairly good ;)). Keep your head up, keep at it, and as others have suggested do something ellse, volunteer, etc, it looks great to employer that ou're keeping yourself busy, and you'll meet people and gain more skills and experience. Best of luck


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    damselnat wrote: »

    OP here, amazing advice thank you. My degree is a 2:1 in english and history. So I feel gradireland.com wont help me as it seems to be targeted towards business and science related degrees.[/QUOTE]

    But you can go into business. You need to be able to think outside the box when you're applying for jobs as I said, you have a good level of degree, you've done English, surely some sort of abstract thinking was used for this? As I said, just by studying for 3 years you have all sorts of transferrable skills, regardless of the subject you studied. For instance, my degree is Economics. One of the jobs I got offered was in an admin position in a specialist hospital, cause I sold myself on all the organisation and prioritising and team work I did during my degree, they weren't interested in the fact I could (or couldn't) run a regression or draw a graph or not....The job I have got, in financial services, is sort of related to what I studied, but the reality is (according to my boss) that I got the job because I filled the criteria of having the attitude they wanted in the office, not the technical skill I brought (because I didn't!). At the end of the day, people will employ someone they want to work with. But what you need to get to that point is the right CV to get the interview. Apply for stuff you don't think you'll get, you never know, and any interview experience is good practice. The job I ended up with was not one I wanted or expected to get, but I got the interview, and once I was in there I was able to show my boss that I'm the sort of person he wants working in the office. Attitude is so important here OP, it's so hard to beat yourself down, you have a great degree that's taught you so many skills, not just information (how good do you have to be at analysis to get a good English degree? I think fairly good ;)). Keep your head up, keep at it, and as others have suggested do something ellse, volunteer, etc, it looks great to employer that ou're keeping yourself busy, and you'll meet people and gain more skills and experience. Best of luck[/QUOTE]

    OP here, so I got a interview for next week but Im really nervous. It's a telesales position, the problem is Ive no experience in this area whatsoever and my issue is, this job is tough, people arent keen on people who ring up to sell, so Im worried even if by a miracle get this job, I'll be let go due no sales. I had a phone interview first and they arranged a second interview but I cant see this going much further. Ive no idea what Im walking into. I know from my own experience how keen people are with telesales ringing.


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