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could really be doing with advice

  • 12-01-2012 12:54pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    hello,can really be doing with some advice

    split with my ex 8 months ago.we had been going out 2 years,we got on really well and had talked about marriage and kids etc

    but the main problem was that she used to hate occassions coming up and that i would have to much too drink,it was a couple of times but i know that once was too much,i accept that,she also agrees that she had her faults and that i wasnt too blame fully for the breakup.we did remain in contact and talked a few times a week and we did a few things together.however i told her i couldnt do it again because i know my feelings for here were stronger and that she didnt see us getting back together again

    she met somebody else a few months ago so we stopped contact.i have also met somebody else but its in the early stages,the only problem is i still think about my ex and dont see this current realtionship going very far but will give it another month or so too see how things go.

    i dont like to sound disrecptfull to my ex new man but i know off him and i know he hasnt got too much going for him,i am the opposite of him,im outgoing, have good job,own house and the likes,i know i know that these things are not everything,but on the other side of the coin i had these things and our relationship never worked so its not everything.

    i fully believe in things happening for a reason and things like that but i have gotten the urge to contact her,nothing too serious just for a general chit chat as i miss our conversations.but i know it is the wrong thing too do.she knows i respect her for her decision not too give it another go and want her to get on with her life

    would really like some advice to put me off getting in contact as i know i would regret when i would do it

    thanks


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
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    Thanks Sunflower

    i didnt mean to come across as arrogant about her current boyfriend.i am not a vindictive person and i did wish her the best in her new relationship and still do.the fact that he doesnt drink to much is the reason why i would say she is attracted to him

    i also think your right regards reminiscing,i know that things arent going to be the same but havent really committed to this new girl yet,it has been bout 6 weeks but we are moving slowly and i do want to give it another while to see how i feel and wouldnt disrespect her by contacting my ex

    thanks


  • #3
    LegacyUser
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    well at the moment the drinking is well under control,my resolution this year was to learn from my mistakes and i fully intend to follow this

    my drink problem will always be an issue but i am working really hard to control it but know that theres a long road.and in a way that is what i find appealing about this new girl,she knew what i was like and i had a reputation as being a bit bad but im no longer like that and for that reason id like to give it a go, even no im not in a panic to get into a full blown relationship at the minute i intend not to stop the relationship before it has a chance to ignite


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