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does she like me?

  • 09-01-2012 4:36pm
    #1
    BoardsUser836
    Closed Accounts Posts: 39 ✭


    There's this girl i know who is going out with my friend, but I'm not the type for running off with other peoples dates, but I just want to know if she likes me or not.

    She always wants me to dance with her (can't remember when her guy ever danced with her)

    We have almost the exact same sense of humour and she always laughs at my jokes or even when I'm just being random.

    The other night when I was hanging out with her we were in a crowded bar and in order to help her go through the crowds (out of niceness, I put my arm around her and she didn't seem to have a problem with it, but if it was one of the other guys she would be all WTF?? and she even bought me a shot but none for her boyfriend) on that same night I met up with an old school friend and coincidentally she also knew him, but her boyfriend who also knows my old friend refused to acknowledge him (on the basis he is a farmer) and then she scolded him for being rude and knowing that I had been nice she came over to me and put her arms around my shoulder as we walked.

    She was originally supposed to be set up with me, which I told my friend about and he got to her first (and my friends have reason to speculate he did it on purpose, they also have reason to believe that she really does like me but at the same time won't break up with her boyfriend)


Comments

  • #2
    fluffybiscuits
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 152 ✭✭fluffybiscuits


    sunflower27 wrote: »
    Well, she obviously likes you as a friend, but it is obvious you feel as though you had first dibbs and you should be the one dating her.

    She's with your friend, stop obsessing about her and find a single girl. If she was that into you, she wouldn't be dating your friend.


    Nah come on its not all that black and white! Im of a different opinion(apologies if I do sound like a pain in the hole!) ! She could be afraid of breaking up the friendship and therefore is holding back somewhat. If your friend who she is going out with is a twat , ask yourself if you could see yourself going out with this girl and what the ramifications are for going out with her in terms of what it will do to your friendship. Just to add, there is no such thing as having first dibbs on a bird, they dont have "belong" to anyone!


  • #3
    fluffybiscuits
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 152 ✭✭fluffybiscuits


    sunflower27 wrote: »
    Fluffybiscuits - I am quite aware there is no such thing as first dibbs, but i am going py the OP's statement that he was set up with her fist. So the hell what? It means nothing.

    Mentioning that the friend doesn't dance with the girl, that the OP and her have the same sense of humour... it is quite obvious the OP fancies her and is asking if she likes him as more than a friend, ie. all the intimate touches etc.

    OP, sorry, but so what if she was 'meant' to be introduced to you first, she has her own mind and she didn't have to be with either of you if she didn't want to. She chose to be with the friend.

    That's the end of it.

    Thanks for clairfying that , I was confused! :)


  • #4
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 0 ✭ [Deleted User]


    It sounds like you're in the friend-zone to me, I've met a lot of women who are similar. Move on.


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