Oral sex q.

LegacyUser

I would post this in the other forum but want to remain anon for this one. As a female recieving oral I noticed that there is little pressure applied from the tongue and it is making me feel paranoid that i taste funny ''down there''
Do men not like giving oral and if they do out of feeling obliged to would they give little effort if they don't like the taste? I always make sure i have showered before but i still worried and it is not a question I would expect an honest answer from.
Do any other girls get off on small pressure applied. maybe it works for them?

Sleepy

If he's not applying enough pressure with his tongue it's probably down to reading so much that he has to be gentle or perhaps an ex being more sensitive there than you and he's trying to apply what she taught him to you...

Either way the answer's pretty easy: tell him to apply a bit more pressure and see how it goes from there.

ted1

you got to tell him, poor chap probably thinks he is doing a great job...

finbarrk

He wouldn't be going down there if he didn't like it anyway. Just tell him you want a bit more pressure.

You need to tell him what you like, otherwise they won't know. We're not mind-readers - it varies from girl-to-girl, some dislike too much pressure applied, some love it. You need to talk to him, tell him what you like. It can actually be somewhat sexy and a bit of a turn-on.

ElleEm

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You need to tell him what you like, otherwise they won't know. We're not mind-readers - it varies from girl-to-girl, some dislike too much pressure applied, some love it. You need to talk to him, tell him what you like. It can actually be somewhat sexy and a bit of a turn-on.

I completely agree. Everyone is different,and enjoy different techniques. You need to tell him what YOU like. It doesn't need to be a big formal, sit down conversation about it. The next time he ventures down there, show him what works for you,or whisper gently 'a bit to the left / right/ harder / softer' etc. I'm sure he'll be glad of the guidance- he WANTS to please you.

What I actually enjoy sometimes is when the girl runs her fingers through my hair and directs me to where she likes. It's possible to turn telling him what you want into something extraordinarily sexual for him too, where he gets a lot of pleasure from it as well. Communication is vital.

aidan24326

orlasex wrote: »

I would post this in the other forum but want to remain anon for this one. As a female recieving oral I noticed that there is little pressure applied from the tongue and it is making me feel paranoid that i taste funny ''down there''
Do men not like giving oral and if they do out of feeling obliged to would they give little effort if they don't like the taste? I always make sure i have showered before but i still worried and it is not a question I would expect an honest answer from.
Do any other girls get off on small pressure applied. maybe it works for them?

I assure you the vast majority of guys love to give a girl oral. As others have said you just need to give him a bit of guidance as to what you like. He's probably afraid to go too hard in case he hurts you.

And believe me taste is not an issue unless you hadn't showered for a week, so in otherwise it's a non-issue.

BattleCorp

Relax, you aren't smelly down there. He just doesn't know how to do it "the way you like it".

As a man I have to admit that most of us are clueless until we are "trained" to do it properly. With men it's easy, the same thing works for pretty much all of us. Women are different, what works for one doesn't necessarily work for another.

Get him to do it the way makes you feel best - give him simple directions, up, down, harder etc, etc. He will appreciate the direction and you will appreciate it too.

LegacyUser

orlasex wrote: »

I would post this in the other forum but want to remain anon for this one. As a female recieving oral I noticed that there is little pressure applied from the tongue and it is making me feel paranoid that i taste funny ''down there''
Do men not like giving oral and if they do out of feeling obliged to would they give little effort if they don't like the taste? I always make sure i have showered before but i still worried and it is not a question I would expect an honest answer from.
Do any other girls get off on small pressure applied. maybe it works for them?

Going unreg for an honest reply

Everyone does it differently and likes it different

Everyone tastes funny down there and tastes different, some people like to shower before oral what ever you's are comfortable with to make it more enjoyable

Some men love giving some don't, I wouldnt assume he doesnt because of his methods,
hes probably just trying to stimulate you.

I don't really let my partner do it, I feel embarrassed and I tried to tell him how I liked it but he thought he was doing it brilliantly with his last partner and now he's "bad" at it
I don't get pressure but a lot of sucking which I don't like, over stimulation and its a bit slurrpy (sorry),
If he wasn't insecure we would work on it, just like how we did for me giving and it took more than a year to find out what he really enjoyed without saying much
as in try different things and let him know when he does something you like never mention stop or I don't like that or do you think I taste bad etc. no negatives

I don't think it works for him, I think he might think its pleasing you.
If you've showered before I can't believe its an issue of taste.