met a girl

Nal

hey,

I met a girl out a night out on New yrs eve in Dublin. I met her through a friend. I fell for her straight away. We were getting on great.

We were talking for a good 10 mins and She got her camera out and got her friend to take a few pictures of us. She kissed me on the cheek and then told me and her friend to come to the dance floor. so I followed her, but all this time on the dance floor and even before when we were talking, her friend was there so I couldn't try nothing whatsoever. I was on my own when I was talking to them aswell so I didn't have anyone to distract your one so to speak

anyway, Ive since added her on Facebook but we still haven't been online at the same time so I can't talk to her. I don't know what to do tbh, I just feel times running out by the second because it's already 2 days since Ive spoken to her. Even if we were online at the same time I don't think I'd have the confidence to chat

I don't even know if she feels the same about me, tbh we were both drunk, for all I know she might not even remember me My friend told me that he said I had a great chance with her if her friend weren't there though.

Really don't know what to do, any advice?

W.Shakes-Beer

Send her your number in a private message!

Dont worry OP, time isn't running out and if this girl likes you, 2 or 3 days of non-contact wont mean much to her and she'll be glad when you do make contact.

Good luck.

Nal

W.Shakes-Beer wrote: »

Send her your number in a private message!

Dont worry OP, time isn't running out and if this girl likes you, 2 or 3 days of non-contact wont mean much to her and she'll be glad when you do make contact.

Good luck.

I know your probably right, is sending your number straight away not a bit forward though?

I fear Im going to let this slip through my hands tbh, I really don't think Im going to have the confidence to inbox her

LegacyUser

I'm in almost the same situation except with a guy. He added me on facebook but haven't talked much and I really don't want to just let it go.
Anyway, from being in a similar situation, I'm not sure about giving your number straight off but you could always just send a facebook message saying hey or whatever and she can get back to you when she is online, just to get the contact going.
You might as well try it though, nothing ventured nothing gained kinda thing. wish the guy I met would say something :L

Kimia

Nal wrote: »

I know your probably right, is sending your number straight away not a bit forward though?

I fear Im going to let this slip through my hands tbh, I really don't think Im going to have the confidence to inbox her

Well if you don't have the confidence to send her your number, or ask her for hers, you'll have to make your peace with the fact that yes, nothing will come of this. Sorry.

p

Nal wrote: »

I know your probably right, is sending your number straight away not a bit forward though?

I fear Im going to let this slip through my hands tbh, I really don't think Im going to have the confidence to inbox her

Sending her your number isn't a good idea. You're the guy, you're supposed to take the lead.

Why not just invite her out sometime when you're going out with friends to an event. That's a low-pressure environment, and you can see what you think when you're a bit sober and take it from there.

Life's too short to waste by not asking her.

Mr. Loverman

Come on man, women love confident guys.

Send her a message inviting her out for a drink with her friends and your friends. (The reason I am not suggesting you do a 1 on 1 yet is because I think you may be too nervous for this at the moment).

Live your life to this saying: better to regret the things you have done than the things you haven't done.

You will regret doing nothing!

nowyouresix

I'm with most of the above posters. Send her a message, asking her for her number, and clearly state that you would like to take her out on a date. When she sends her number, call her to arrange the date.
If you want her, you've got to chase her.
Be a man here.
You might just be pleasantly surprised !