Confused

LegacyUser

Hey Lads,

Hope everyone here is having a good holiday and having plenty of craic! I've fair confused about something that I hope someone could help me out with either a bit of advice or a kick to the liathroidi to get me to get over it

Basically myself and the girlfriend have had few problems but I think for the most part we get on really really well. Last year around October time we had a break up for around a month but we solved our problems and this year has been mostly great apart from the usual minor fights ( nobody died..besides her cat, he deserved it...joke his alive and well! )

Anyways roughly two weeks ago I was well and truly annoyed, she was fairly negative all weekend so I just decided to call a break just to get some space and time not to go off scoring and all that fantastic stuff ;D She was really really heartbroken and was really down for a few days...I kept in constant communication just to make sure she was alright ( I felt really bad as she told her how she was thinking of marriage down the line and all that jazz) and after few days we ended up spending the entire week together...movie,restaurant,went out ,stayed the night etc etc Was all good fun! Then she went off to a house party. I stayed at a different friends house waiting for her to get her groove on,dance away,drink away and I'd collect her. Come 4am I call her and she tells me she dosent need a lift home...Now to be fair I got a little thick( I was waiting for 3 hours in town just to collect her) I got over it but when she texted me the next day I was fairly curt with my replies.

Anyways 2 days later I give her a call and she tells me that we are still on a break( she robbed my idea!) and that we should'nt be living out of each others pockets, she also insisted that we can score other people if we wanted to - I was taken back by this but I'm fairly sure she said this to hurt me. Although she could lop the gob with someone..she's firey out like that but I'd be fairly shocked if she did to be honest..she is as loyal as mojo (his my dog...he once got got the rubbish man in a leg lock for waking me up) Anyways I told her that I was hurt and she replied back with the old chestnut " Good now you know how I felt!"

Since the phone conversation I've sent her two jokey texts and one semi serious texting stating that if she did score someone that I would never ever go back with her. Well I wouldn't It's not the way I'm made. Her replies have been short and fairly aggressive ( once again similiar traits to mojo - seriously no twist here..Im not dating my dog) Basically telling me that she needs more time and if I do push her that it wont go in my favour...

Thing is she could score away mad if she wanted to ( She is completely hot and constantly gets hit on) and its the worst time of year...parties galore!! Awful timing I should have mentioned that stupid "break" thing around Feb time Anyways so now Im like a sad sack waiting by my phone waiting to see if she will make the biggest mistake of her life and dump me!! I havent heard from her in days and we usually text each other 20=30 times a day so to be totally honest I miss her loads and wish I never made that stupid,rash and idiotic decision to call a "break" Let this be a warning to everyone If you must be stupid..time it better! Any advice,words of kindness,sympathy sex (once again yet another bad joke) or words or comfort,critique most welcomed.

Man the days draaaaaaaag when your by the phone waiting, thing is I could score away myself but actually have no interest in anyone but my true love *looks at mojo* Thanks for reading..sorry its so long and hope you guys can see passed my spelling,grammar errors.

Thanks!