Getting Her Back

LegacyUser

Myself and my girlfriend of two years, split up after the summer there. I basically freaked out at how serious things were and what they may become ..in the meantime I became depressed and wouldn't talk to anybody even her.
We decided to break up as I needed tiime to think, and I saw her a few weeks later which led to our feelings coming back and we kissed and were back together again like that ..however I wasn't ready I still needed time
We split again almost mutually but mainly driven by myself and I have used the last few weeks to think
I know now that she's exactly what I want and everything we've talked about
but she no longer trusts me
she says she can't believe anything I even say

She started going out with an old ex of hers about a month ago and he loves her but she doesn't love him
she says she only loves me and is using him as a way to distract herself
and she needs time to forgive me

I've seen her since a few times , we've made progressed, kissed almost back to normal and then she just goes straight back to him
I've tried everything I can think of the show her and talk but nothing

what should I do?
The thought of her with someone else is killing me and I'm just sad all the time

I am a friend

It's all very messed up. Shame on her for using that poor guy she is seeing and on top of that - cheating on him ... It would make me worry about her emotional maturity.

Sounds like you want her cos she is with someone else??