Unsure whether I should ask her to be my gf.

LegacyUser

Hi ive recently been seeing this girl for the last two months and we have been getting on really well. We have been texting everyday and have seen each other about twice a week for the last two months. We have been on dates such as nights out clubbing, just chillin in her place and have spent nights together in hotel rooms. We have had sex and I have met a lot of her family as well.

For example over the christmas she invited me to come with her to her sisters with her family present for a food and drinks. That went really well I felt. I must admit that I am starting to have feelings for her and do really like her. Tbh I cant stop thinking about her and she always seems to be on my mind. Of course I dont tell her this as I dont want to come across as too needy or clingy.

The question I want to know is ( I know this probably sounds stupid) do I officially as such have to ask her to be my girlfriend or do I keep it going as it is. I just dont want to frighten her off as we only know each other two months. I dont know if there should be a particular timescale for this kind of thing. Im just really looking for advice particularly off women on what I should do, do women need to be asked to be in a relationship or does it just naturally turn into one as it runs it course? As things are going well I really dont want to frighten her by asking her if its not necessary.

DangerMouse27

I'm a guy but i would ask her.
Its a great time of the year to do it too, new years and all that. She seems like she is very into you too by asking you to call around to her family. Despite what bad thoughts and second guessing are hanging in your head, its your feelings which seem clear, that you do genuinely like her.

greenprincess

she basically is your girlfriend, but i know that I like to be properly asked. Just say it casually enough. like the next time your together just say something simple like, so do i get to call you my girlfriend?

wivy

Ask her! She seems very keen and as previous poster said ye are as good as goin out.. theres something special though about making it 'official' as such and asking her..
Best of luck

GoldFour4

Seems to me that she may already see ye as boyfriend and girlfriend tbh !

tigerblob

Ask her, it's only fair!