Id imagine this is an easy post to answer...i hope

DangerMouse27

Hi Guys!
Merry Christmas to all.

Im with this girl since September and we have been going out since then. We have been together in the past and we finished before because il say it, emotional maturity was low. The opportunity came up to give it another try and we both went for it. The thing is, she has not really told anyone we are back on.. she is afraid in part that we are just starting out again and she is afraid some of her friends will warn her off me. Its her families opinions which she is more afraid of.

The thing is, my brother and his girlfriend have invited me and a plus one to a new years eve small party which the bros partners family is hosting. I'm wary of inviting her to a family thing if her own family do not even know we are together. Her family are very important to her but i also do not want to feel like a pariah as the only one of us who seems to be allowed in having a close relationship with the others family is her.

She found out that the party was on and wondered why i had not invited her.
Its a family thing and she does want us to have one in the future but can i keep bringing her closer to mine if hers does not even know we are together?

Yeah its not the worst problem or dilemma on here but its on my mind, any advice would be great.

Thanks.

Taltos

Make the invitation but make it clear that since she wants to take it slow especially regarding her family you have no problem if she prefers to sit it out until you are together a bit longer again...

All about how you ask her.

DangerMouse27

Thanks Taltos, thats kind of where i was going with it. Il ask sensitively. Family is important to a lot of people and its best i approach it with care.