Should I stop talking to this girl?

LegacyUser

I'm 18 and I'm a lesbian but I have no gay friends and I recently broke up with my girlfriend/best friend who was the only person I was properly out to who I routinely saw, so atm I'm feeling pretty isolated to be honest with you. I met this girl recently at my friends birthday, which was my first time ever going out to a gay club or just being able to be honest and have fun with people. We hit it off really well and she said she liked me, but the difficulty is she has a girlfriend. I like her too but a) I don't want to be the home-wrecker and b) she lives basically too far away for a relationship to work very well. We've been texting and talking a lot ever since and I'm wondering should I just leave it in case I ruin everything?

Kajor

What's wrong with just being her friend?

LegacyUser

Being her friend would actually suit me, but I just feel like if my girlfriend was texting someone who they'd said they liked, I might be kind of angry.

jaffacakesyum

Kajor wrote: »

What's wrong with just being her friend?

+1

This girl has a girlfriend. You met her once at a party, is this right?

If so just forget about the possibility of getting with her and just keep her as a friend. After all you said you've no gay friends so I'd be happy with the opportunity to find some new gay friends.

Dwn Wth Vwls

See if you can make friends with her girlfriend too, that way it won't feel like you're going behind her back. If she refuses to let you talk to her gf or is weird about it, then perhaps she doesn't see you as just a friend and you should draw the line.

Kranium

I'd be her friend . Don't try come between her and her gf because it could get messy