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Not sure if she's interested

  • 23-12-2011 11:18pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi. I'm a 25 year old guy and only recentley have entered my first relationship. Well, I'm not even sure if its a relationship. I only met her last month, and I've been on 3 or 4 "dates". She told me that she likes me, that was a couple weeks ago.

    You see I'm not very good with displaying emotion so I think I might have scared her off by not showing enough "affection". I've been told by her that I'm hard to read! This week I've been trying to arrange to go on a date with her but everytime she said she was busy and had something on that night which got me worried.

    Another thing is that I have been texting her, but it always seems to be me that starts texting first and I'm worried I might be texting her too much and scaring her off. Yesterday I decided not to text her and she never texted me... although she did ring me the day before.

    As you can probably see, I over think things, but I've never had a relationship ever before so not really sure what I should be doing, or if this is normal.

    Any advice? Thanks.


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  • #2
    careymary
    Closed Accounts Posts: 460 ✭✭careymary


    Hi
    When she told you that you were hard to read, it sounds to me like she was saying just that, she isnt sure what you think about her, if you arent showing her affection but you are texting her that can be confusing,
    As for her not texting well christmas can be a really busy stressful time so maybe thats the reason as you said she has rang you ie shown interest!
    Maybe send her a text just to say you hope she is getting a chance to relax over christmas and that you are looking forward to seeing her again,
    You say you dont know whats expected in a relationship, I can honestly say I really value when someone is honest with me if its to say they like me or they dont as long as its honest thats what matters, be honest and be yourself, you have nothing to lose dont get trapped by worring about seeming over eager, if she has already said she likes you then you are on a winner!
    good luck and try enjoy it!


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