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what are the do's and don't for contact after first meeting up?

  • 22-12-2011 12:01am
    #1
    allovertheshop
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 70 ✭✭


    Just wondering, how long should you leave it before contacting someone after meeting at the weekend?
    We met on friday night, swapped numbers and had a few texts on saturday morning. we both agreed that'd we'd had a good night on friday night and would like to see each other again. He had his christmas party on saturday night, got text to say he'd had a good night on sunday but i haven't heard anything since.
    With it being christmas, it's hard to meet up with people due to other commitments, family gatherings, friends home from oz etc.

    I'm just wondering, since I haven't heard anything from him since sunday, should I contact him or should I leave it up to him to conact me? I've never really got into the whole "leave it 3 days before conacting, let the boy do the running" etc and wondering if maybe I should wait for him to contact me or not? I don't want him to think I'm coming on too strong...

    Any advice?


Comments

  • #2
    Elmidena
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,570 ✭✭✭Elmidena


    If you like him, go for it! Worst it'll cost is the price of a text and maybe humble pie, but it could blossom either! Don't have a potential regret on your plate, especially at this time of year. It'll work or it won't....one way to find out!

    I don't believe in playing it cool or letting the guy do the chasing, makes a person look a stuck up knobend IMHO. Hope it works out :)


  • #3
    Fentdog84
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 936 ✭✭✭Fentdog84


    No harm in sending him a text just to let him know your still 'around'. Chances are he's just as unsure as u are about the situation and meeting up again etc..,


  • #4
    silly
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,722 ✭✭✭silly


    I txted a guy the day after being with him saying I would love to meet up again. He's my hubby now:)
    There are no "do's and dont's"...


  • #5
    Aseth
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 423 ✭✭Aseth


    Such questions really annoy me... If you liked the peson you met then call/text when you feel like it. Don't let anyone tell you 'you have to wait 3/4/5 days, etc' before texting or he will think you are a total weirdo, or something....
    No point in waiting if you can have a great relationship. If they are not that into you they won't reply even if you follow the advice.


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