What happened?

LegacyUser

Hello dear readers,

Thanks first of all for reading this. I met someone a few weeks ago and it was all amazing until about a week ago when he stopped communication. Well, he didn't stop outright but the way he wrote his messages was different, and very few of them. It was a very sudden change.

Am I being a paranoid freak? He said he'd see me this week but I haven't heard from him yet. My instinct is telling me that something is up and he is no longer interested, but to go from everything fine to everything not fine in the space of 24 hours is a bit weird isn't it?

Has this happened to anyone else? Should I leave it or ask him to meet up?

MsAllybear

oh my god, are you me??
this is what my thread is about below /above this.
I got sudden complete stop to texts and calls in last few days and everything was fine till then as far as i knew. anyway my conclusion , the guy is an A**hole but i just didnt see it . p.s. this is currently happening.. i'm upset but venting helps.

my situation could be different to you though...is anything happening with him in his personal life , family etc etc... can u find out.. ??

Hope you figure it out!!!

LovelyLottie

Ah girls - are you both me???!!!! x

BarackPyjama

Sometimes a guy decides he doesn't want to be with you anymore. Decent guys will communicate with you and let you down easy. Others are cowardly a*sholes who just blank you. Women do it too. Just one of those facts of life really!

silly

I was you, or you were me about 6 yrs ago.
Was seeing a guy for a few weeks, everything great. One day he txted to say he was at home, he was going to have lunch and then he was going to come over to my house. He never called and I didn't hear from him for 2 weeks .
Some guys are just assholes.
If you don't want to ask him straight out, then I'd suggest you cut your loses with this guy.
But, he may have a valid excuse too!?

LovelyLottie

The valid excuse for not contacting someone, is that you don't want to. Simple as.

Oryx

I would say leave it. It could be that somethings come up in his life, or that he just doesnt want to see you anymore and he is a coward about it.

nowyouresix

Chalk it down to experience....move on darlin'....

LegacyUser

Wouldn't necessarily agree with the above advice, it could just be that the texting each other constantly thing has got a bit tedious/he's busy/whatever. Don't just let it go and write it off immediately, leave it for a short while, if you hear nothing back then ask what the story is.

LegacyUser

I was texting this girl up until last week, she said she would meet up for a few drinks. Too be honest I was dead excited about it, heading out with her after a busy week at work.

Anyway, she texted me saying that maybe I was tired after work etc.. Basically letting me down, I said I was going for a quite drink anyway by myself, just to see if that would shift things. But nothing, anyway it had upset me to be honest.

Brought back things for my past, girls letting me down and heading out with other guys( I know build a bridge). I was falling for this girl, and it felt like I was wasting my time. So I didn't know should I give it a chance or not give it a chance, she text me today. I wrote back saying how I felt, only to get one word answers back. So it has my head melted cause I really still feel something for her!

Feel like a gob****e now, for thinking the way I did. I wish I never stopped texting her. But my advise would be to text him when you can, find out whats up, if he starts been a dick to you just drop it. I wish she text me earlier and asked what was up with me, I feel I have made a right mess now that I doubt is repairable.

Hope it works out, I know the feeling..