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Is this normal?

  • 14-12-2011 8:46pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Early 20 year old fella. Virgin, havent snogged many girls, just 2 in fact.

    Anyways, when I'm out I see the hot women etc and I think to myself, yes I would etc etc.

    But then when I masturbate and I cum and I'm maybe thinking of these hot girls or whatever I feel guilty and then go right off them, not for good. I know when you cum that feeling happens for fellas. But wondering would the same happen if I did it with a girl from a club or whatever, if I was to cum would I immediately regret it. Anyone any experiences?


Comments

  • #2
    coolcat63
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 193 ✭✭coolcat63


    Yes, I think it's normal. Once you have sex with a person who is real, rather than a masturbatory illusion, someone you want to talk to, touch, hug, laugh with and curl up with, you'll won't regret it.


  • #3
    wylo
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,214 ✭✭✭wylo


    its all called being horny vs suddenly not being horny


  • #4
    cafecolour
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,328 ✭✭✭cafecolour


    If I've sincerely liked someone and been attracted to them, it's never been a major problem.

    If I've picked someone up in a club because I just wanted to pull and thought "you'll do" it would happen. Not guilt exactly, but the feeling that it was mostly a waste of time and now I'm stuck dealing with this person.

    So I stopped doing the later and only now do the former ;)


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