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Christmas Party and a fling

  • 11-12-2011 3:52pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    The perils of alcohol and a work christmas party.
    I went to mine last night and ended up staying over at my colleagues house. Of course, alcohol flowed. We ended up sharing the same bed and we were both trollied and shall we say had a go at each other (no sex but just about). Am mortofied now the hangover has worn off. He is a nice decent guy, but he is seeing someone and so am I (casually-no committment yet although Id like there to be). I feel guilty because of this also. Like I shouldnt have done it even though technically am single.

    We both agreed it was just a combination of being trollied and sharing a bed, and am fine with that, but now am dreading going to work tomorrow and seeing him-hes seen me naked! We were good friends at work-both said we didnt want that to change, and am desperately trying to see the funny side of it. Ive never had a fling or whatever you want to call it with someone from work before. Am dreading my shameful face will give the game away tomorrow and am going to get 20 questions off my workmates.


Comments

  • #2
    A0
    Closed Accounts Posts: 666 ✭✭✭A0


    You're both seeing someone... Learn your lesson, drink responsibly and think before acting. If you are asked, just say nothing happened and that's it. Nothing else you can do really, it happened, it's over, just forget about it :-)


  • #3
    Taltos
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,830 ✭✭✭✭Taltos


    Abolutely with the post above.
    Just go into work as if nothing happened but be ready for some of the snide/sneaky comments from folk fishing for scandal.

    If something is said have your response ready - oh of course I went back to "John's" - decent chap let me take the couch I was in no shape to get home or something similar. What went on between you both is no-ones business - and won't be provided you are both discreet.


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