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Met a guy,really hit it off but....

  • 09-12-2011 11:02pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    hi all, long story short i went for a weekend away with 2 friends.. we went out that night and after a while i got talking to this guy, we got on very very well and were talking/kissing like we knew each other for years.. anyway, all back to the hotel room there were 5 of us in a large room, after a while the others left and he slept in my bed (nothing happened).
    Anyway, he took my number and mentioned meeting up again and since then i have heard nothing! and to make it worse, i can't seem to get this guy out of my head!!
    i know they say "he's just not that into you"... but can i please get a guys perspective on this?
    we really did click and i don't think i imagined it!

    why ask for the number if he'd no intention of calling?
    all opinions welcome! thanks!


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  • #2
    amdublin
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,653 ✭✭✭✭amdublin


    dudette28 wrote: »

    why ask for the number if he'd no intention of calling?
    all opinions welcome! thanks!

    Because some men are big chickens and want to finish a date on a high rather than an awkward goodbye :-(

    Have you ever seen the Friends episode where Chandler goes on a date with Rachels boss, Joanna? Its that.

    I'm sorry. But if he was interested in you he would have contacted you by now.


  • #3
    Firetrap
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,442 ✭✭✭Firetrap


    There could be any reason. Maybe he had a girlfriend already? He figured you lived too far away from each other? He's a waffler? Who knows?

    It's certainly a pity because most of us don't meet people we click with like that every day of the week :( Unfortunately though, you're right. If he was genuinely interested in seeing you again, he'd have made it his business to get in touch. Sorry


  • #4
    greenprincess
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 309 ✭✭greenprincess


    Nothing worse! I really dont understnad sometimes. But in a week or so you will start to forget about him :)


  • #5
    shellyboo
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,883 ✭✭✭shellyboo


    If you click with someone, you should get their number and contact them later to ask them for a date. If you didn't do that, it's your loss, OP.

    There could be seven million reasons he hasn't gotten in touch with you. The only way to know for sure if he's interested is to take the initiative yourself and ask him out. Simple.


  • #6
    Firetrap
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,442 ✭✭✭Firetrap


    To be fair to the OP, he took her number and mentioned meeting up again. That she didn't take his number is neither here nor there.


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  • #7
    anndub
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 517 ✭✭✭anndub


    He's just not that into you.

    Forget about him and wait for the guy that is.


  • #8
    dellas1979
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,128 ✭✭✭dellas1979


    How long ago did this happen?
    Weeks/months?


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