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Phone number

  • 07-12-2011 05:35PM
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,128 ✭✭✭


    My dad died nearly 2 a half years ago, I still have his phone number in my phone, I can't delete it. My phone is now in need of replacement. Should I use this a a chance to delete his number or should I keep it?

    I feel guilty even thinking about it as an option, every time I scroll down and see dad I feel sad, yet I smile as I like the gentle reminder.

    Any advice


Comments

  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,479 ✭✭✭I am a friend


    I think keep it.... I think as long as its not upsetting you then its ok.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 945 ✭✭✭Squiggler


    Yes, I see nothing wrong with keeping the number in there if it gives you comfort.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,407 ✭✭✭✭banie01


    Agree with the previous posters :)
    Keep it.....The number sparks a happy smile for you!
    Why lose that connection?
    Keep it and keep smiling too!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 879 ✭✭✭Kablamo!


    I know my father's number off by heart even though it's no longer in my phone. Still go to ring it sometimes :o


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,050 ✭✭✭axel rose


    I haven't been able to ring my husbands number for over two years now. Not only do I have the number-I sometimes send him texts when I'm stressed out about something. :o

    It's a comfort thing- keep it grindelwald! What harm is it doing in your phone?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,109 ✭✭✭sarahbro


    I changed phones 6 months ago and still transferred Nan's number to it. Dunno why. Can't even text her as the number is out of service. But it's still nice :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,128 ✭✭✭cynder


    Thanks, thought it was just me. Glad to know I'm not alone, that I'm not some lunatic. I've been tempted to ring the number but i haven't.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 842 ✭✭✭ConTheCat


    Keep it, after my nanny died I used to ring to hear the voicemail until the number was out of service.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 185 ✭✭LovelyLottie


    Keep it. I kept my mum's number in my phone for years though no voicemail to ring, that would have been nice :) Last summer my phone packed in and i lost all my numbers, but i only realised now reading your post that her number went with it. I guess the fact that i didn't realise i had lost it, meant that i was ready to.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 14,949 ✭✭✭✭IvyTheTerrible


    Just something to be aware off, mobile phone numbers are "recycled" by service providers after a certain length of time. So just be aware of it and don't get a shock if you ring the number in the future and someone happens to answer the phone (it happened to a friend of mine and was very upsetting).


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,073 ✭✭✭Rubberlegs


    Just something to be aware off, mobile phone numbers are "recycled" by service providers after a certain length of time. So just be aware of it and don't get a shock if you ring the number in the future and someone happens to answer the phone (it happened to a friend of mine and was very upsetting).

    I seem to remember hearing that on Gerry Ryan one morning. Someone had rang in after losing someone very tragically, and I remember Gerry saying that he would contact the phone company and see to it that the person's phone no wasn't given to anyone else. This was a big fear of the caller that their loved one's no would be given to someone else.
    I still have my Dad's no on my phone almost 14 months after he passed away. I wouldn't even consider deleting it. Having said that I've never rang it and never will, but I just like the fact it's still there. I can still hear the way he answered the phone to me in my head, and that's enough. A huge fear of mine was that I would forget what his voice sounded like:(


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 208 ✭✭SineadMarie


    My dad will be gone 4 years tomorrow and i still have his phone number in my phone couldn't and won't delete it, its a reminder of him and it makes me feel better when i look at it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,128 ✭✭✭cynder


    I have my new phone, and I kept the number.


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