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still bother????

  • 03-12-2011 3:17am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    had a date with i girl ive liked for a long time and kind of friends with for tonight but she text me this morning to cancel as she had to mind kids. said no problem and sure another time. was gutted as i really like her but sounded like an excuse to get out.


    Question is should i just give up or give her the benefit of the doubt and see what happens or shall i just wait to see if makes another plans to meet up again or should i the guy ask her another time???

    Useless at these kind of things


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  • #2
    Firetrap
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,442 ✭✭✭Firetrap


    Give her the benefit of the doubt and ask her out again. If she cancels again, you'll have your answer.


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    You asked her out, she let you down at the last minute. It's her turn now if she's interested. Don't start off a relationship on the wrong footing.


  • #4
    Ickle Magoo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 17,485 ✭✭✭✭Ickle Magoo


    I think you should ask her out again if you are really interested in her. You kinda lost the opportunity to leave the ball in her court when she cancelled, that's the ideal time to reply that she should let you know what time/date/location suits her and then wait for her to make a move...

    Just ask again and at least you'll know one way or the other.

    All the best. :cool:


  • #5
    shellyboo
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,883 ✭✭✭shellyboo


    OP, you can imagine that it's her turn to ask you or whatever you like... but you have no way to know what SHE thinks or what she is going to do. Literally the only way to find out if she does actually want to go out with you is to ask her again. Anything else would be an exercise in mind-reading.

    If she says no or bails on you, you have your answer and can move on. If you don't say anything, then you're stuck waiting and guessing. I know which I'd choose!


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