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Unsure what to do!

  • 29-11-2011 12:22am
    #1
    tooler7
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 105 ✭✭


    Well lads, have a fairly small problem. Asked a woman that i like out on a date around a year and she was taken at the time so i moved on anyways but last few months we really have got close and talk a good bit and then she ended up being on the market again.
    As we got closer i asked her again and she said yes and we arranged a date for this weekend. Now we would talk most days either by txt or i would see her in work and we would chat. Was a few days since the whole date thing was mentioned and i txt her this afternoon and asked was saturday still going ahead i.e the date and heard nothing back now im unsure as what to do dont want to mention it again as dont want to seem to desperate.

    Question is will i jst leave it at that and not mention it again or what???

    Im 23 and have been off the market for a long time so is kind of my first time asking a girl on a date and unsure what to do


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  • #2
    redman85
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 553 ✭✭✭redman85


    You only sent it today. I wouldn't worry about it maybe she didnt get the text or her phone is off etc.

    Leave it a few days then call her. Much better then waiting around for a text that maybe didn't get delivered


  • #3
    thefa
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,054 ✭✭✭thefa


    Would she usually be quick with the texting? I ask because some girls take their time texting back for one reason or another. Sometimes forgetfulness, being busy, pretending to be busy or they just like being waited on.

    I wouldn't bother texting her about the date again or bringing it up when you meet her at the risk of looking over-eager. You asked her out a year ago and again last week plus backed it up with the text so you've shown enough interest for her to be confirming the plans ye made.

    If you see her before you get a reply to that text, just act as usual which she obviously has an attraction to and act like you forgot the text even though it might be the only thing you're thinking about! See does she bring it up and keep in mind that Saturday's a long way away still.


  • #4
    I am a friend
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,479 ✭✭✭I am a friend


    I would leave it now... If I were her and a guy I was interested in asked me out, I would not be delaying replying and would not be paying games...

    If she doesnt reply, let her off.


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