how to tell if he is truly interested?

HollyPerry

im 21 and the guy in question is 28. we have been texting for about 2 months now and know each other through a mutual friend. we first met about 4 weeks ago and we went for dinner but nothing happened. we met up again 2 weeks later where he came around to my place. we watched a movie and ended up having sex. he didnt text me the next day so i text him the day after and he said i was wondering when i would hear from u. i text him again during the week and he asked me my plans for the weekend and i told him i was going away and would be back saturday evening and he said we might see you sunday then. he text me then the day after just general conversation and i text him yesterday congratulating him on something he won over the weekend. he then asked me was i back yet but i wasnt and he didnt reply again. so im confused whats going on. he always texts me back when i text him and he does text me the odd time too but from the very beginning he wasnt good for texting anyway we would text for a few days then might not speak for a week. so i dont know whether i should :
a) leave him completely alone and let him come to me if hes interested
b) text him and ask him did having sex put him off and what hes looking for etc and tell him how i feel or
c) ask him to meet me during the week and if he does great if not move on.
whats your opinion?

C-J

My opinion is that this is the third thread on the EXACT same issue in a week, if you were unwilling to take previous advice on board then starting another thread isn't going to give you the answer that you want.

I am a friend

HollyPerry wrote: »

so i dont know whether i should :
a) leave him completely alone and let him come to me if hes interested
b) text him and ask him did having sex put him off and what hes looking for etc and tell him how i feel or
c) ask him to meet me during the week and if he does great if not move on.
whats your opinion?

A) Yes
No way - why give him the ego boost
C) Now cos he will see it as a booty call and you need him to show that he is interested rather than you keeping chasing him.

If he hasnt been on before now, the chances are he is only keeping his options open for a shag again at another stage. guys who are interested in you dont leave you hanging - sorry

Maple

Thread locked, triplicated issue.

Well done to the ninja eagle-eyed posters of PI/RI for spotting this.

Maple