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how to get over someone

  • 08-11-2011 3:39pm
    #1
    emmlouj
    Closed Accounts Posts: 10 ✭


    Anyone got solutions...im going out of my mind, im 25 we had been together for 4 years when I decided I wanted a break. He took this really badly. We kept in touch, seen each other up until 2 months ago and he has since cut all contact. Deleted his facebook, changed his number and has moved on with someone else, says I hurt him too much and cant go back. I understand I was the one who finished with him...how can i respect his decision and move on :(


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  • #2
    Stheno
    Moderators, Business & Finance Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 51,690 Mod ✭✭✭✭Stheno


    moved from tLL


  • #3
    Sleepy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,366 ✭✭✭✭Sleepy


    By doing what you wanted to do.

    We don't get to put others lives on hold whilst we figure out if there's a better option out there. You weren't happy with the relationship and wanted something else. Go chase whatever that something else was.


  • #4
    baby and crumble
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,512 ✭✭✭baby and crumble


    TBH he's being healthy and moving on. You need to follow his lead. You hurt him, you broke up with him, now it's your turn to move on.


  • #5
    foxyboxer
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,528 ✭✭✭foxyboxer


    From what I can tell it's he who's done the breaking up.
    You decided you "needed a break" which is a cop out really in that you're trying to keep your options open.
    He called your bluff and now it's a permanent break up.


  • #6
    Nudey_Nun
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 7 ✭Nudey_Nun


    Avoid eye contact if you meet him, I'd suggest. And don't discuss personal matters, keep it to small talk. I think by what you've said you'll never be as close as you were before again. But then again, who knows. He might be trying to protect himself because he acknowledges that he still loves you?


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  • #7
    PK2008
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,219 ✭✭✭PK2008


    foxyboxer wrote: »
    From what I can tell it's he who's done the breaking up.
    You decided you "needed a break" which is a cop out really in that you're trying to keep your options open.
    He called your bluff and now it's a permanent break up.

    Agree with this, it sounds more like you have problems with him moving on quicker than you rather than actually losing him.

    If he hadn't moved on and still wanted to get back with you, you probably wouldn't be interested- we always want what we cant have and all that.

    Best to wish him well and move on yourself


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