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  • 07-11-2011 7:27pm
    #1
    pinkyb
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29 ✭


    there's this guy and he lives on my cousins road and i really really like him but there are issues.
    1. my cousin has feelings for him but she said she doesn't want anything to happen but she don't know and i cant tell her unless it wrecks out friendship( we really close)
    2. his friends, one of them hates me and his mates are really awkward and annoying:(
    3. he doesn't know and i don't want to tell him in case he doesn't like me back and then we probably cant be friends
    4. i cant keep it in any more i really like him and we have a great time hanging out and have things in common but i cant be just friends
    Any advice on how to tell him, how to know if he likes me and what i can do about his friends and my cousin thanks


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Forget about your cousin, she doesnt own the rights to him. Forget about his friends, its non of their business who he goes out with. Yourt already friends with the guy by the sounds of it so if no one has an issue with you hanging out as friends why should they be concerned if its more?

    Ordinarily Id say just chat to the guy and you'd get an idea of whether he's interested, then suggest meeting up one on one sometime, you sound quite young though, so Im guessing he's also young, so its up to you how you approach asking him out, but I wouldnt see your cousin or his friends as an obstacle.


  • #3
    pinkyb
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29 ✭pinkyb


    idle passerby wrote: »
    Forget about your cousin, she doesnt own the rights to him. Forget about his friends, its non of their business who he goes out with. Yourt already friends with the guy by the sounds of it so if no one has an issue with you hanging out as friends why should they be concerned if its more?

    Ordinarily Id say just chat to the guy and you'd get an idea of whether he's interested, then suggest meeting up one on one sometime, you sound quite young though, so Im guessing he's also young, so its up to you how you approach asking him out, but I wouldnt see your cousin or his friends as an obstacle.

    well im 14 and hes 15. thanks


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Its been a good while since I was that age but my own memories of 15 year old boys is that regardless of how much they like a girl, most would not have a clue how to handle being asked out and would default to sniggering with their friends about it rather than giving a straight answer. But Im sure there are some nice 15 year old boys who would be gentlemen but to be honest Id say theyre few and far between, boys are still very very young at that age.


  • #5
    pinkyb
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29 ✭pinkyb


    idle passerby wrote: »
    Its been a good while since I was that age but my own memories of 15 year old boys is that regardless of how much they like a girl, most would not have a clue how to handle being asked out and would default to sniggering with their friends about it rather than giving a straight answer. But Im sure there are some nice 15 year old boys who would be gentlemen but to be honest Id say theyre few and far between, boys are still very very young at that age.

    well what should i do? he is young for his age but can be mature but with sniggering with his mates sounds likely...
    i just dont want to ruin any freindships (me and his and me and my cousins)


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