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the friend question again

  • 06-11-2011 6:46pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    How do I tell my friend I may like him as more than a friend?

    There are signs that he likes me too but he has never really said it to me. We dont see each other a lot (living in diff countries but email/message) but he recently came to visit me.
    Since he has gone I miss him and think its time maybe I told him how I feel. I kinda thought he might have said to me while visiting but he is very shy and maybe he didnt want to upset the visit or just doesnt want to go there and remain as friends.
    I too am very shy which is why I havent said anything til now but I am beginning life is too short and he wont be single forever either :)

    How do I say it?

    Thanks


Comments

  • #2
    killer kilbane
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 60 ✭✭killer kilbane


    I think you should express your feelings too him. If he visited I reckon he sees you as a close friend anyway so don't think, you could damage your friendship by telling him.

    Don't come on too strong would be my opinion, just tell him how you like him more than just a friend or something on those lines and it should be good enough to find how he truly feels about you.

    Hopefully it works out for you


  • #3
    A0
    Closed Accounts Posts: 666 ✭✭✭A0


    Tell him, believe me... you don't want to be in a friendly relationship with someone you like. It doesn't work.


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Is it ok to say this to him in an email?
    Just to put the idea out there :)


  • #5
    I am a friend
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,479 ✭✭✭I am a friend


    Is that the way you normally correspond? If so, I would say work away on email


  • #6
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Well at least I can say I tried. No feelings like that for me.
    Not sure what to feel but sure I'll be glad I said something.
    Thanks


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  • #7
    Young_gunner
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 542 ✭✭✭Young_gunner


    beingshy wrote: »
    Well at least I can say I tried. No feelings like that for me.
    Not sure what to feel but sure I'll be glad I said something.
    Thanks

    sorry to hear that but you're def better to have said something


  • #8
    baggypants
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22 ✭baggypants


    beingshy wrote: »
    Well at least I can say I tried. No feelings like that for me.
    Not sure what to feel but sure I'll be glad I said something.
    Thanks
    Sorry to hear that OP but at least you know where you stand now


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