being accused of something i didnt do??

davemc180

ok so my gf just rang me from a nightclub saying her old friend who she went to school with is saying i kissed her... like iv never seen or heard of this girl until tonight????

i dont understand why shes after making up such a stupid story

gf said were finished even do iv been trying to tell her iv never seen or met that girl befor...

any advise on wat i should do? i said to my gf ring get her and ring me on loud speaker so i can ask who the **** she is with no joy

what do i do?

I am a friend

Tell your gf to call over to discuss this bs when she is sober and ready to act like an adult.

CarMe

This is going to sound very harsh so sorry in advance, I think your gf is making it up to break up. As if she's going to believe a pretty much random girl in a nightclub over her boyfriend, and if she's stupid enough to then you're well rid.

davemc180

were kinda on the rocks as is but i cant see her making it up were together nearly 4 year now,

im goin over to her in the morning and im going to get her to ask the girl whos making **** up to meet us in person and see wat has to be said

Big Bag of Chips

With a few drinks in her she might think this is an "hilarious" prank call?

Either way, tomorrow I'd let her know it's a piss poor way of treating you...

davemc180

Big Bag of Chips wrote: »

With a few drinks in her she might think this is an "hilarious" prank call?

Either way, tomorrow I'd let her know it's a piss poor way of treating you...

it wouldnt be a prank call....

im in the height of it like, fair enough if i did kiss this girl id hold me hands up but to have a random person say they kissed you to your other half, whats goin on in her head like

CarMe

I can't make sense of this at all Op, if someone told me this about my boyfriend in a club I wouldn't simply ring him and end it if he claimed to be innocent. Is she still getting on with her night out after hearing her boyfriend of 4 years cheated on her?
I find it really really hard to believe she's being honest with you here it just doesn't add up.

davemc180

i cant figure it out myself, but i have the girls name and 1 of my gf mates just told me shes a mad liar and her address , so im going to her house tomor with my gf to reslove this

battser

personally I wouldn't even bother. I can't even belive your GF would believe that story and end it with you over a phone call all in one night!!! I agree with an earlier poster! I recon your GF wants out mate. Hope Im wrong.

davemc180

she wouldnt just make it up we were only chatting about 15mins befor hand and everything was fine

she beleives her because my gf thinks i was unfaithful before because i had a dating website profile and my mates were acting the ballox on it in a house party wen we were 1st together...

well i found out were the girl works and were she lives so im going to find her tomor with my gf and get this sorted...

muppet causing arguments iv never even met the girl, and she says i kissed her last year but she woulda been in college with my gf at that time so why tell her now if i did kiss her then??

shes blatenly lying but i cant understand why wat gains will she get from us breaking up

in the height off it

LegacyUser

Your girlfriend trusted a so called 'friend' (a 'friend' who told her she kissed you!). She does not trust you at all unfortunately. But then she's probably out drinking for the night, and her insecurities have come to the surface, and she doesn't want to listen to what you have to say.

One of a few things will happen now, if your girlfriend has woken up yet :
1. Your girlfriend will be mortified by her actions, and will apologise profusely for her idiotic actions.
2. She has issues with trust and will drag this whole sorry mess out in a dramatic fashion in order to make you feel guilty as possible, or 'confess' to some 'sin' you committed.
3. She will apologise but will still harbour feelings of mistrust about your past.

You have done nothing wrong, so anything you say will be backed up by that. You've already told her (while she was drunk I presume) you didn't kiss that other girl. Tell her again today while she's sober-ish. If she decides to react in the way I described in point two, she really is not worth the hassle and you should say goodbye to her. If she reacts as in point one or three, well things can be saved but try and find out was there was a bigger issue behind her accusing you of kissing another girl.

davemc180

problem resolved, she had a few to many drinks and her mate she was with told my gf the so called friend was winding her up but my gf was pretty drunk so took it to heart...

she was very upset with herself today...

cheers for advice

I am a friend

davemc180 wrote: »

problem resolved, she had a few to many drinks and her mate she was with told my gf the so called friend was winding her up but my gf was pretty drunk so took it to heart...

she was very upset with herself today...

cheers for advice

She should be!!

I am a friend

davemc180 wrote: »

problem resolved, she had a few to many drinks and her mate she was with told my gf the so called friend was winding her up but my gf was pretty drunk so took it to heart...

she was very upset with herself today...

cheers for advice

She should be!!

Maple

As the issue seems to be resolved, I'm locking this thread.

Maple