dealing with ex starting to date

LegacyUser

hey,

exboyfriend went on a date,decided to tell me he finally chatted up a bird *his yayness for getting confidence* then decides not to tell me anything else and leaves me burning with curiousty..i wish he didnt tell me anything/or told me everything...

any advice on getting over him now? feeling like we just broke up all over again

*we were going out nearly three years/quite serious and were(are) very close friends*

A0

Cut contact with him.

I am a friend

Why in the name of god are ye 'very close friends'? Does this mean ye are sleeping together.

You do need to cut contact to move on.

Firetrap

It's like this. He's your EX. Whatever the situation is between the two of you, you are not dating. You are not an item. He's free to do whatever he wants with whoever he wants and it's no concern of yours. Seeing as you are having trouble handling this, it would be better for you to cut contact. If you're that bothered, I'm guessing you still have feelings for him. He doesn't reciprocate that so it's time for you to move on with your life, independent of him.

floorpie

These type of things will keep on happening if you keep in contact. His first time chatting someone up, first date, first girlfriend, first holiday, facebook pictures, etc etc.

Just cut contact.

(excellent anonymous username by the way)

den87

Cut contact is the best option. It hurts way too much finding out info about your ex.

LegacyUser

thanks for the advice! i guess cutting contact is the only way and by close friends i meant just that...that we are best friends, so its tough...but noted, just gotta distance each other