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Unable to reach climax

  • 03-11-2011 12:49am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    i hate writing about this but here it goes

    i discovered masturbation when i was very young, about 10 id say, but it wasnt you average masturbation that is well known.. it was a kind of different method that allowed you to go from nothing to finished in about 1 minute. if you want details it was lying face down and a kind of foreskin masturbation

    at the time i didnt know what i was even at but it felt good is all, so ive been doing that all the way up till the age of 20 as opposed to the traditional way, just because i can be done in about 30 second, finished and clean.

    unfortunatly, i think this made a difference when i went home with a girl for the first time a few weeks ago. i was unable to reach any climax and i knew exactly why, because she wasnt doing it the way i did it to myself and it was kinda awkward...

    anyway anyone ever have this problem? any does anyone know what i should do?


Comments

  • #2
    Miss Fluff
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭Miss Fluff


    thejokes wrote: »
    i was unable to reach any climax and i knew exactly why, because she wasnt doing it the way i did it to myself and it was kinda awkward...

    You've answered your own question hon. You've become so accustomed to getting yourself off in a certain way that you're desensitized/unfamiliar with any other way....for now!

    The human body is a great thing so this is only a temporary problem and within your own capacity to change. You have to now alter the way you masturbate and begin to masturbate the same way a girl would **** you off to become used to different sensations.

    Your penis will soon get used to it and find it just as arousing. You simply just have to break the habit and it will be fine.


  • #3
    ElleEm
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,981 ✭✭✭ElleEm


    Maybe you should invest in a Fleshlight or something that gives a similar sensation to a vagina so you can get used to it alone, then you won't have to worry as much next time you're with a lady.


  • #4
    mikemac
    Closed Accounts Posts: 19,969 ✭✭✭✭mikemac


    Take a break OP, you should be good to go next time you meet the lady


  • #5
    pragmatic1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,573 ✭✭✭pragmatic1


    Op I've had to fake an orgasm a few times with women. It happens. Lay off the masturbation before next time and dont stress about it.


  • #6
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 0 ✭ [Deleted User]


    The problem with faking an orgasm when you're a guy is that .. well .. it can be somewhat obvious if the girl happens to see the condom. Unless you're quite versed in Tantric sex, then it might be a bit hard to explain.

    Don't worry about it, OP. If anything, if she did it the way you like and it finishes as quickly as you say, then - well - that's not fun for anybody. Take a break from doing it that way and either invest in a fleshlight or try masturbating the other way.


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