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mistake?

  • 25-10-2011 12:48pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    I was with a guy on saturday night who I have fancied for a long time and finally split up with his girlfriend a couple of months ago.
    He walked me home and texted me the following day to meet up before he went back to college and we did and it was great.
    I texted him later asking did he get back ok and he replied that he did and he had a good night.
    I replied that I did and that we should do it again soon.
    I'm now thinking that was a mistake because he didn't reply to it and I haven't heard anyting since.
    I'm not going to text him but just wondering was that a mistake?
    Also is there a certain length of time a guy waits before he texts a girl again?
    I'd appreciate any advice thanks.


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  • Posts: 3,505 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    So you went out on Saturday, he texted you Sunday, met up, you texted him later that day and now, Tuesday, you haven't heard from him? I don't see anything wrong with that, he wanted to see you every day of the weekend, now he's back in college during the week and so he's busy.
    mistake123 wrote: »
    I replied that I did and that we should do it again soon.
    To me that's not a text that requires a reply. You didn't ask any questions and made what sounds like a pretty final statement. If you were looking to actually set something up you should have said something more specific than "we should do it again soon". Wait till the weekend, and if he doesn't text you by then, then just text him yourself. And actually ask him to do something.
    Also is there a certain length of time a guy waits before he texts a girl again?
    No. Unless he's playing mind games and is a bit pathetic.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    thanks for the advice.
    I'm actually goin away at the weekend for a week so I can't meet up with him but I guess I could send him a text anyway.


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