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personaltrainer

ok so basically not havin a good time with my bf of 2 years...im 27 and so scared of been single....am i stupid for been scared?:(

I am a friend

To be brutally Frank YES!!! Why would you waste more time with the wrong man when the right one is out there?!?!?

muracan

There is an old saying...better to be alone than in bad company.

Life is too short to waste time....move on ...the right person is just around the corner!

Zen65

personaltrainer wrote: »

im 27 and so scared of been single....am i stupid for been scared?:(

It's not being fair to you to use a derisory term like "stupid", but I certainly think you may be staying in an unsatisfactory relationship for all the wrong reasons. Being single at 27 is not a big deal. Being single but wise enough to know what you don't want from a relationship is a much better place to be than being 30 and having spent 5 years in a relationship which does not make you happy.

But before you leave this relationship ask yourself why you're not happy with it! Is there something either of you could do (without suggesting a major personality change) which would make you both happy? If not then don't stay.

Take some time to find yourself again before you embark on your next serious relationship. When you do find someone again, be sure to check your satisfaction with the relationship together regularly, so you don't wake up one day after another 2 years and feel that it's not what you want.


Be at peace,

Z

gmac102

Nah your not. Noone likes changes.

Im single a little while now and mostly Im happy enough just sometimes I get a bit lonely but sure who doesnt.

Theres nothing to be afraid of.

personaltrainer

thanks everyone....now just the problem of actually doing it....

Ham Sambo

You are not stupid, However you would be classed as stupid if you stayed with this guy, You are only 27, stay single for a while, clear your head and start again. Best of luck.