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is it too late??

LegacyUser · 2011-10-21 20:35:12

so i had one of those 'on/off' relationships for last year or so, he would back off when things got to the point where we had to make the commitment or not. anyway, got to the point where i was fairly well over it, had realised it wasnt going anywhere blah blah blah, and really knew that and was getting on with my life.…

21-10-2011 8:35pm

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so i had one of those 'on/off' relationships for last year or so, he would back off when things got to the point where we had to make the commitment or not.

anyway, got to the point where i was fairly well over it, had realised it wasnt going anywhere blah blah blah, and really knew that and was getting on with my life.

fast forward couple of months and i find myself kind of seeing him again.

nothing in partcular happened, he seems different somehow.

no the problem isnt like usual, where i would be scared to get involved because i expect to be heartbroken again.
this time i feel like im not really involved, i told him that all his crap over the last year was killing my feelings for him. he does seem different. it seems like this time he might actually be acting like a grown up. he is talking to me, making the effort, basically doing everything i wanted for the last year.

i dont know if i care anymore though. maybe i just took enough crap to kill all the love.
im afraid now that if he is actually serious this time, that im just not interested. i dont know whether to bother or not. not because im afraid of being hurt, this time im afraid i could hurt him!

i was mad about this guy, fell in love with him, big time, thought he was the one.
just dont know whether i should hang on for few months more and see if my feelings come back or just cut my losses now and tell him its not worth it. i really dont wanna hurt him, if he has made the effort for me!

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