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What to think?

  • 21-10-2011 6:45pm
    #1
    Trigger75
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3 ✭


    Removed post as I got plenty of good advice, thanks


Comments

  • #2
    sarahbro
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,109 ✭✭✭sarahbro


    Delete his number, block his texts and move on. you are waaaaaay better than that!


  • #3
    EGAR
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,874 ✭✭✭EGAR


    Totally agree with Sarahbro and I think deep down inside you know it too. He is a waste of space.


  • #4
    Miss Fluff
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭Miss Fluff


    Am I right in saying you haven't even met with this headwreck and you're posting here? He contacted you a few years ago, never even went on a date with you, has consistently fcuked you about, went AWOL, and now he's reared his needy little head again and you haven't even met him???:confused:

    Delete and move on girl, why would you even bother? Seriously?


  • #5
    CarMe
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 677 ✭✭✭CarMe


    You deserve so much better than this pr!ck! Think of it this way, would you like your child in the future to be messed around by a love interest like this? I seriously doubt it and you deserve no less.


  • #6
    qwertytlk
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 747 ✭✭✭qwertytlk


    Too messy, too much effort to even sort out one date. Definatley dont think your over reacting or being overly cautious because of past siutations.
    You and your child deserve better and i think if you ever did manage to get anything going with this guy that it would probably be a disaster.
    Sorry but thats my honest opinion.


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  • #7
    Big Bag of Chips
    Administrators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 14,914 Admin ✭✭✭✭✭Big Bag of Chips


    I'm going to go a bit different to everyone else.

    If he is single, with no responsibilities, then making and breaking (rearranging!) dates isn't a big deal for him. It is more of an issue for you because you need to organise a babysitter.

    He may just be really scatty and badly organised. It doesn't necessarily mean that he is a bad fella or deliberately messing you around.

    Why not try one last time to make a definite date with him? What's the harm in meeting up once to see how you get on. If might be a disaster! It might be a laugh. It might be the start/end of something!

    Without meeting him, I think, it's unfair to write him off completely. What have you got to lose... a couple of hours!


  • #8
    Trigger75
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3 ✭Trigger75


    thanks to everyone for replying. I had already deleted his texts and number.
    your're right I do deserve better. I just needed to make sure I was overreacting.
    we're late 30's not kids!


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