what to do?

LegacyUser

I met this guy out a few weeks ago and we were talking for ages and got along well!
We didn't exchange numbers but we added each other on facebook and talked on it there.
My best friend went out with him for a few months 4 years ago.
I told her I liked him and she was cool about it and said she would text him for me to see how he felt about me.
She texted me back to say that he figured out I liked him but that he would never get with a mate of hers!
Does that mean he likes me but because of her he won't get with me?
Or is it because he doesn't like me and is using that excuse to fob me off?
I'm also not sure should I still talk to him on facebook or should I just leave him alone?
Any advice would be appreciated!

I am a friend

Tbh I think it's an excuse. I'm sure she told him she was ok with it...

I would stay in touch with him on Facebook. Just take this one on the chin and move on with no hard feelings against him.

LegacyUser

I am a friend wrote: »

Tbh I think it's an excuse. I'm sure she told him she was ok with it...


yeah that was my instinct too.!
thanks i'll move on i guess!

puffin24

I agree, I would say its more of a polite excuse. No harm done

Simi know it all

Honey, any men who has a bit of dignity would not go off with friend of the woman he used to be with.... Try to find someone else....And if you like him, stop talking to him, it'll be easier for you...OR as my male friends are telling me you might fugly but nice, that's why he would not go off with you..... so you can choose which of those options are more suited to you...

LegacyUser

yeah thanks I'll just move on to someone else!

floorpie

unsure123 wrote: »

My best friend went out with him for a few months 4 years ago.
I told her I liked him and she was cool about it and said she would text him for me to see how he felt about me.
She texted me back to say that he figured out I liked him but that he would never get with a mate of hers!

I have to disagree with all the other posts, especially the one about a man and his 'dignity'. They were together for 2 months, 4 years ago?! That's hardly worth talking about, but at the same time, of *course* he's going to say to *her* that he wouldn't get with a friend of hers (that's if he actually did say that).

I'm not saying that he did or didn't like you, i can't possibly know, but i don't see why it's your friends' business to be honest.

Wompa1

floorpie wrote: »

I have to disagree with all the other posts, especially the one about a man and his 'dignity'. They were together for 2 months, 4 years ago?! That's hardly worth talking about, but at the same time, of *course* he's going to say to *her* that he wouldn't get with a friend of hers (that's if he actually did say that).

I'm not saying that he did or didn't like you, i can't possibly know, but i don't see why it's your friends' business to be honest.

You never know, every relationship is different. Have fallen in love with a girl in a month and another within 4 months....maybe they he or she loved the other..ya never know

LegacyUser

Op here!

Well my friend was trying to help me out she doesn't have feelings for him she's in love with someone else.
You are all right in your replies I'll never know was that his true answer that he diddn't want to get with a friend of hers or whether he told her he didn't like me and to spare my feelings my friend told me a lie?
I'll just have to forget about him now he's not worth it!