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  • 18-10-2011 9:42pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    i have never had a girlfriend but i am in my thirties. A girl has made it obvious for a while she has a fancyd me. she is good looking and good craic but a bit mad (in a rock star sort of way) however i dont think i fancy her. i dont know if she wants to have a relationship or just to sleep with me. When i wa schatting to her recently she was kissing me(in front of another fella else she headed of with) and telling me she would have my babys. i dont think i want should i just sleep with her? should i say something next time i see her to see if she just wants fun? or would that be arrogant?

    Also she probably know about my lack of girlfriends and was wondering if maybe she is having a laugh in someway?


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
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    anyone?


  • #3
    I am a friend
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    I think her ott actions e.g. Talking about having your kids and kissing you in front of the lads, are attention seeking and would not come across as genuine. I think she is a bit of a p1ss taker.... Sorry


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    She mightn't be taking the piss, but it doesn't sound like any sort of 'done deal'. Had you kissed someone before? Have you had sex before? You can't really openly 'ask' if someone just wants fun, it has a bit of an insulting implication; even if by some stroke of the no-strings-attached-gods she did just 'want fun', she'd just say no and you'd look like an arse. So play it by ear.

    Having said that, if you've never slept with anyone, and it seems to be heading that way with this girl, don't *not* do it just because you aren't in love with her or something like that. She's good looking, good craic, and frankly it'll get it out of the way after years of building it up into something it's not. But if it's never brought up again, i'd just move on.


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