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tired of meaningless relationship

  • 18-10-2011 12:16am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    i am areasonably confident, good lookin young man and i cant seem to find a girl who suits me at all.. any girl im with seems so into me and i wish i could feel the same. wish i could meet a girl who looks at me like i'm everything snd i csn look back thinkin the same :)


Comments

  • #2
    Abi
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22,058 ✭✭✭✭Abi


    It seems you just haven't met the right girl yet OP. Try not to analyze every girl you date, just let things flow naturally. Without sounding too cliched, she's out there, you just have to find her :)


  • #3
    allgirlz
    Closed Accounts Posts: 187 ✭✭allgirlz


    I agree with Abi and remember give it time, I am a firm believer that the best relationships are slow burners. Friendship first then the rest!


  • #4
    G-Money
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,199 ✭✭✭G-Money


    allgirlz wrote: »
    I agree with Abi and remember give it time, I am a firm believer that the best relationships are slow burners. Friendship first then the rest!

    I sort of see where you are coming from with this but I'd never agree to be friends with a girl when from the outset I want to be more. If naturally starts off as friendship and becomes more, fair enough. But I think agreeing to just be friends when you blatantly want more is thankless task and will inevitably cause pain to the person who wants more.


  • #5
    Abi
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22,058 ✭✭✭✭Abi


    G-Money wrote: »
    I sort of see where you are coming from with this but I'd never agree to be friends with a girl when from the outset I want to be more. If naturally starts off as friendship and becomes more, fair enough. But I think agreeing to just be friends when you blatantly want more is thankless task and will inevitably cause pain to the person who wants more.

    But this is exactly what allgirlz said, and I do agree. I think high-diving into relationships is the OP's problem here.


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