Flirting.

billyconlon

can someone tell me if this is flirting??my gf said to a guy on fb that she missed him.the guy also asked her if she is still in love(with me) and she wrote-"think so ya".doesnt seem so sure!!she was never with this guy before but they flirted alot before we started dating.also another one of her friends is saying stuff to her like he loves her etc and she replies by saying awwww.and finally another guy she is friends with she sends many kisses to,writing stuff like mucho besos etc.is that too much or am i over reacting??thanks.sorry for jumping in here.im not sure how to start a new thread.

ando

Its hard to say whats going on from an outsiders point of view but from my experience, Facebook is dangerous, and this looks like dangerous territory....

Have a talk with her and voice your concerns, but if a girl wants to cheat, she will (or a bloke for that matter obviously) and there is nothing you can do to stop them. If she is showing another guy attention there might be something there, there might not be, she may be curious, she maybe flattered, she may like the attention or just misses him as a friend, you never know until you talk...

The guy asking her does she love you is (in my books) a clear sign that he wants to be with her. You guys sound young

billyconlon

young enough.it really confuses me.as well as all this she is in the process of looking for work here in my town.shes just after staying here for 5weeks with me spending all her money on flights and when she got here.and she is very loving when we are together holding hands always etc.really dont get it.told her lastnight i want a break but she was crying and everything saying dont leave me etc etc also the guy saying he loves her says that to loads of girls which she showed me and she did show me where she said she was going to delete him if he kept saying it