Can you truly know your partner, how long should it take. What if you dont.

whubee

My girlfriend says that i dont really know the real her.

We've been through a lot of things
But she says I dont understand her like she understands me
We live together, and now I know the difference between right and wrong
and I aint gonna do nothing to break up our happy home

But she gets so excited even if i come home a little late at night
Then its like we act like children and we start to argue and fuss and fight

Its like shes always in funny moods (Not that I dont have my own too)
she doesnt seem to trust in me like i trust in her. (we've been together long so it should be so easy to do)

Should i tell her just get herself together or that we might as well say goodbye.
I mean what good is our relationship when we can't really even see eye to eye.

should i know her better by now, and if i dont will i ever.

Sonics2k

Not sure if poem...

Cavehill Red

Mick Hucknall deserved that.

hondasam

how long are ye together and what age are ye?

J. Marston

whubee wrote: »

My girlfriend says that i dont really know the real her.

We've been through a lot of things
But she says I dont understand her like she understands me
We live together, and now I know the difference between right and wrong
and I aint gonna do nothing to break up our happy home

But she gets so excited even if i come home a little late at night
Then its like we act like children and we start to argue and fuss and fight

Its like shes always in funny moods (Not that I dont have my own too)
she doesnt seem to trust in me like i trust in her. (we've been together long so it should be so easy to do)

Should i tell her just get herself together or that we might as well say goodbye.
I mean what good is our relationship when we can't really even see eye to eye.

should i know her better by now, and if i dont will i ever.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A4VbOHvaPRc

Sinfonia

whubee wrote: »

My girlfriend says that i dont really know the real her.

We've been through a lot of things
But she says I dont understand her like she understands me
We live together, and now I know the difference between right and wrong
and I aint gonna do nothing to break up our happy home

But she gets so excited even if i come home a little late at night
Then its like we act like children and we start to argue and fuss and fight

Its like shes always in funny moods (Not that I dont have my own too)
she doesnt seem to trust in me like i trust in her. (we've been together long so it should be so easy to do)

Should i tell her just get herself together or that we might as well say goodbye.
I mean what good is our relationship when we can't really even see eye to eye.

should i know her better by now, and if i dont will i ever.

Well in her defence, you think you know someone, and then he goes and changes his name to Yusuf Islam.

shannon_tek

From what i have learned/t since ive moved to the social world is. Its nearly impossible to live with other humans.

But You can never truely understand someone. they will never understand you. It raises my question or how people can live together forever. Like being around the same person day in day out is going to break down at some stage ..... and now i've gone off topic F%^$

/:(

Colilfc

If you don't know her by now, you will never ever know her... No you won't, no.

policarp

You're never ever going to figure out the female mind, so save yourself a lot of anguish and quit trying now, while you still have a few marbles left.

seanybiker

Nope ya can't.

Almost 8 years with one and she living with a mate of mine.
Almost 3 or 4 years with other one and all I got was chlamydia haha.
Sucks to be a nice fella.

shannon_tek

policarp wrote: »

You're never ever going to figure out the female mind, so save yourself a lot of anguish and quit trying now, while you still have a few marbles left.

Listen to this person they speak alot of sense.

Or you can do what i do and play them at their own game which leads to an arguement to goes out the window. that leads to silence and then you say sorry(or anything) and alls good till the next round. works for me. Just my childish charm :pac:

OakeyDokey

She sounds insecure. Give her some reinsurance and you'll be grand.

How long are you together? Has anything happened since you've been together that might have made her insecure? Why don't you just talk to her about it?

jugger0

The problem is you're focusing on the things in life that don't really matter. When I was a kid I had hopes and dreams. We all did. But over time, the daily grind gets in the way and you miss the things that really matter, even though they are right in front of you, staring you in the face. I think the next time you should ask yourself "Am I on the right track here?". I don't mean to be rude but people like you I really pity. So maybe you could use the few brain cells you have and take advantage of the knowledge I have given you now. Good luck.

Duggy747

Sounds like a stupid Facebook status to me.

Cavehill Red

It's the lyrics to a Simply Red song, people.

Duggy747

Cavehill Red wrote: »

It's the lyrics to a Simply Red song, people.

You make it sound like I should know the lyrics to a Simply Red song :pac:

LH Pathe

I knew something got him started.

efb

go gay, men want sex, simples.

force eleven

Your chances are running out
I can see possibilities clearly
The poor man who put those
Rumours about
Obviously didn't really hear me

Breaking our backs with slurs
And taking our tax for murdering
The only thing I know
She'll have to go

stupidusername

seanybiker wrote: »

Nope ya can't.

Almost 8 years with one and she living with a mate of mine.
Almost 3 or 4 years with other one and all I got was chlamydia haha.
Sucks to be a nice fella.

I'm confused as to how these situations have occurred due to you being a nice fella

Procasinator

OP, you have to look in Your Mirror and say to yourself "I'll keep holding on". Getting to know someone is like driving down an endless road. If you feel you are watching love drifting away, stop holding back the years, hoping for love, day after day.

Just let her know: "There's nothing more important, baby right now than you and me. So come a little closer, darling and turn the lights down low a key."

Turtyturd

stupidusername wrote: »

I'm confused as to how these situations have occurred due to you being a nice fella

They are lyrics to a Simply Red song.

biko

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zTcu7MCtuTs