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Asking a girl out

  • 10-10-2011 10:54pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hello,

    There is a girl that works in a filling station I go to. I dont know her from anywhere else, dont know her name, what she does - nothing. I just have brief interactions with her whenever I go in.

    I dont know how to go about finding if she is single. I am way out of my comfort zone here; I am not good at asking girls out when I am not in a pub / nightclub.

    How do I go about this?


Comments

  • #2
    lau1247
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,248 ✭✭✭lau1247


    just ask casually in a conversation. what's the worst that could happen??

    at best it's a yes she'll go out with you and you'll exchange numbers..

    at worst she says no and you move on..

    West Dublin, ☀️ 7.83kWp ⚡5.66 kWp South West, ⚡2.18 kWp North East



  • #3
    NuckyT
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 92 ✭✭NuckyT


    This is probably the only time a post in AH is relevant in Personal Issues..

    http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2056295854


  • #4
    CyberJuice
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 692 ✭✭✭CyberJuice


    if its your local and you go there all the time then you wont be able to go there any more if she turns you down or laughs or soemthing of that nature,i find its best to leave such issues alone unless you are 100 percent knowing she is into you

    has she given any hints


  • #5
    zxcvbnm1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 422 ✭✭zxcvbnm1


    NuckyT wrote: »
    This is probably the only time a post in AH is relevant in Personal Issues..

    http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2056295854

    Wow - just read that thread. That was a biggie.

    Well there you have it OP. Just do what that guy did.

    I hope it's not the same filling station girl though :confused:
    There may well be threads started on her all over boards !


  • #6
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    "if its your local and you go there all the time then you wont be able to go there any more if she turns you down or laughs or soemthing of that nature,i find its best to leave such issues alone unless you are 100 percent knowing she is into you

    has she given any hints"

    Its not my local. No hints whatsoever, but then again I am terrible at noticing these things.

    "Wow - just read that thread. That was a biggie.

    Well there you have it OP. Just do what that guy did.

    I hope it's not the same filling station girl though
    There may well be threads started on her all over boards !"

    Luckily a different one! And a bit of a different situation; that one it was clear the girl liked him!

    "just ask casually in a conversation. what's the worst that could happen??

    at best it's a yes she'll go out with you and you'll exchange numbers..

    at worst she says no and you move on.."

    I know, but my problem is that I dont know how to drop it casually into conversation!


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