This both sucks and blows:(

LegacyUser

Hi Guys,

So, I'll get straight to it. I met a great guy a few weeks ago and we've been happily hanging out, having amazing sex and have even exclusively said that we're an item. We get along like the best of mates and sex is normally savage...however....the other night I was going down on him and he fell asleep!!!

It was only my second time giving him a bj and he seemed to be enjoying it one minute, but the next he started snoring! My self confidence took a huge knock but I just went to sleep and thought it'd be better to discuss the next day. We'd been drinking wine (not much...but we were tipsy I guess) and it was late/early ...like 4am.

Anyway, next morning I told him that I felt insecure and in no hurry to go there again!! He said he completely understood that but that he didn't think it was a big deal at all. He said he was exhausted, very relaxed and he simply fell asleep!

I just feel a bit weird about this. I'm normally secure sexually but this has thrown me big time!

Soooo...tell me what's really going on...no holes barred (all puns intended:)

Thanks!

Also, dont be afraid to say that I clearly 'suck' at it! I can take it...in all seriosuness though, what is this about (if anything?)

Thanks!!

Taltos

All - keep it civil and within our charter.
Any muppetry will definitely not be tolerated.

Taltos

tallaghtmick

You dont suck at it at all,when drunk we dont feel as much and add that to tiredness and that he was relaxed its easy to fall asleep,I wouldnt worry at all.

kirw2n

Girrrrl don't worry about it!

Y'all know how it is if you have a long day and it ends with wine, all brought together this happening just as you're naturally supposed to be going asleep!

You're just a victim of circumstance, yo, nothing to get worked up over

Hope everything goes smoothly in the future!

Pearlring

Awe dont worry about it

As the others said, extreme tiredness, wine, and been very relaxed - you cant blame him for falling asleep!

Nothing to do with you my dear - you just made him very comfortable

ElvisP

Give him another one in the morning and see what the result it. Guarantee you it will boost your confidence (and you'll have a very happy b/f who will cook you any breakfast you want).

Kevin Duffy

You're already laughing at it yourself, good call. Laugh it off with him too and certainly don't let it affect self-confidence, it's not a reflection on you.

LegacyUser

To use the saying between us guys

"I've never had a blowjob I didnt like"


Relax, its not a big deal

Pandora2

I fell asleep whilst making love, well it was very late, new baby and so on.....Following morning I thought he was off with me but it was only after 3 days I asked him what was wrong and he admitted I snored in his ear at the crucial moment......he forgave me;)

These things happen and I agree with the previous post's, it is quite a compliment for a relatively new partner to be so comfortable with you that he falls asleep with his appendage vulnerable.....all those teeth!!:D:D

OOOh and quick tip....get him to eat strawberries 12 hours before you engage in "hostilities"...it works!! O/H often asks if I would like a Strawberry Shake;):o He's so good to me:D