New Relationship Bedroom Problem

LegacyUser

I'm with my new girl friend about 2-3 months now and every time we have go to have sex it takes me ages to get hard! Once we start i'm grand but its getting hard at the start is worrying/annoying me. I'm really attracted to this girl too which i can't understand.

I'm just out of a relationship i was in for 2 and a half years and i never had this problem.

One more thing i taught i should through in, she is away at college so i only see her every two weeks roughly were as the last girlfriend i'd see everyday.

Because i'm not having sex everyday is that effecting my sex drive?!?! I'm only 20!!

Any advice much appreciated,
Thanks!

Peetrik

johnk2011 wrote: »

I'm just out of a relationship i was in for 2 and a half years and i never had this problem.

Way more common than people will admit to I'd imagine.

Happened to me for awhile after a 5 year relationship breakup. Your just not over your ex. While its embarassing it will pass. Don't stress it

Otis Driftwood

Moved from tGC.

OakeyDokey

The worst thing you can do is stress about it because that will just add to the problem. After just coming out of a long relationship I wouldn't be surprised, this relationship is still new and different but you'll soon become more relaxed.

Instead of jumping into "having sex" straight away try and do some nice foreplay.

BBDBB

take your time

talk to your partner

and relax

Pearlring

How long are you out of your 2 year relationship?????