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New guy, just left

  • 02-10-2011 1:05pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I've been seeing someone from work for the last 6 weeks. We've been having a lovely time together. He recently had to go off on a business trip and the proposed time was for a month, with view to extending it further if needs must.

    I expected that we would do something before he went away, but he didn't have time apparently. On the day that he was leaving, he was talking to some of our colleagues and ignored me. He asked me to make a spare 20 minutes during the day so he could say a proper goodbye before he left. I came up to his desk to ask him if he wanted to go for a coffee and he looked at me like i had two heads. And said he was too busy. So I left it at that.

    I haven't heard from him since he left. And i'm thinking of just letting this whole thing go.


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  • #2
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 18,749 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    whats to think about op?goodbye and good luck. rude, inconsiderate, unthinking w***ker. in my opinion!


  • #3
    Firetrap
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,442 ✭✭✭Firetrap


    What a charmer! Yep, you've been dumped. He just hasn't bothered to say it to you in English.


  • #4
    I am a friend
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,479 ✭✭✭I am a friend


    Ah yah op if he treated you like that you are better off without him. When he gets back make sure you are looking your best, put a big smile on and let him know what he what he is missing.... Do not though fall back into dating him....


  • #5
    IrishEyes19
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,861 ✭✭✭IrishEyes19


    So sorry you were treated that way. Its horrible, but everyone at one stage gets sucked in, when dating at some stage in their lives. Its just a horrible feeling when you fall and then it blows up like that.

    Best advice here has been given already by everyone. Forget him, do not even acknowledge the creep when he comes back if he does.

    It would be a different story if he was polite enough to say it wasnt working for him, or at least be respectful of you in front of his friends. The fact that he acted so rudely now shows you just how immature, and ignorant he is. You have a lucky escape now. And when he comes back, I wouldn't be so quick to say hello or even hold a door open. Him having to go away for work could be your godsend and lucky day. All the best, OP.


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