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starting out as friends again

  • 25-09-2011 9:20am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    hey guys really neally your advice on this

    i was going out with my ex for 2 years and we broke up over 4 months ago due to a personal problem i had,its a problem i am seeking help for

    we had some really good times but she got fed up in the end with my crap.i have now seen the mistakes i made but she means the world to me.when she left there was no bad feelings because i know why she left and she did give it a chance with our realtionship,more chance than i care to imagine.i did break her heart but broke my own heart to.

    we remained in contact and i know that she needed to be on her own for a while and i accept that,she has been in some really bad realtionship for the past 10 years,

    i have found it really hard to get over her and a month ago we did have do the cinema together.i think in my head that i thought things would happen very quick and wed be back together again but i now know that its gonna take a hell of a lot of time to get her to feel the same again about me as i do about her.i had told her that i couldnt things like that again as i knew she didnt feel completely the same about me as i did about her

    i did a lot of soul searching this last week and contacted her last nite about if we could do something again some time,she agreed but let me know that she is happy on her own at the minute but doesnt know what the future holds.i know where i stand and i honestly do not ex[pect anything to happen but will time heal her feelings towards me and i can show her that the person that she fell in love with that we could have a realtionship again some time,i know this could take 6 months or a year or may never happen but i accept that

    do people think that i am doing the right thing.


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  • #2
    Miss Fluff
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭Miss Fluff


    I think you're kidding yourself and prolonging the pain if anything. Starting off as "friends" again is obviously your way of angling for a reconciliation and I think it unfair on both of you to be friends on that basis.


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    thanks miss fluff for the reply

    i have tried the no contact approach and i havent felt any better so all i can do is try this approach.us being friends does not in any way mean that i still am not on the look out for somebody else.but i was best friends with this girl and i could talk about anything with her,very good friends are hard to come by and i dont wanna lose that if it doesnt come to anything so be it

    i dont expect all replies to be of the positive type and accept that


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