Do i ask him or not?

Pebbles!

Me and my ex are seperated nearly a year now and we both have had relationships in the last year..his more serious than mine. But anyway we're back in contact regularly now and we got together one night. I want him back but not so sure he does, tells me how much he still likes me etc etc but i just can't decide if he just wants a bit of fun and I don't want to ruin things or face the rejection of him saying no by asking him to get back together or should I just bite the bullet and ask him??

Elmidena

Ask him. Takes a lot of pluck but it's better than wrecking your head fretting about it, and if a similar scenario came up again and you asked then, well if he's just interested in sex I'm sure he'd say anything to get it, and might not mean it. So make sure the lust goggles are well and truly off both of ye when you bring it up!

I'm not sure if he's still in a relationship, but if he is then I wouldn't hold out much hope for getting back together properly. I mean, you separated for a reason surely, and if he's in a relationship (as I said I don't know!) then that's both careless and hurtful to hook up with you at the same time.

Best of luck, it could really work out for you

Pebbles!

hi Sunshine!

No he's not in a relationship anymore, it's over a good few months now. I know your right, it is starting to wreck my head cause I can't get him out of it!!

I'l hold out for another while, try to figure out how/when to ask him!

allovertheshop

just be sure you're after him for all the right reasons, it can be very easy to just remember the good times and forget the bad times when you look back on an old relationship.

I am a friend

Op I know where you are coming from but is it not better to know now where you stand. Until you are sure I would hold off sleeping with him, just for self preservation.

Is he your ex husband?

Pebbles!

allovertheshop wrote: »

just be sure you're after him for all the right reasons, it can be very easy to just remember the good times and forget the bad times when you look back on an old relationship.

yep I know exactly what you mean, I was very upset when it finished before and I have been doing lots of thinking about it. At the end of the day I know I still love him, everybody has there good points and bad points. Our relationship wasn't perfect by any means and I realise that but id would give anything to give it another go but maybe I'm just best to try forget about him, a lot of people would be of the view that if it didn't work the first time it won't work the second time.

Pebbles!

I am a friend wrote: »

Op I know where you are coming from but is it not better to know now where you stand. Until you are sure I would hold off sleeping with him, just for self preservation.

Is he your ex husband?

yeah the last time we met nothing happened. No he's my Ex-Boyfriend. I think I'm just afraid of him saying No that's not what he wants.

I am a friend

I know well but aren't you better off knowing? Worst case scenario he says no but then you are free to meet someone else. Best of luck and let us know how you go.

Pebbles!

I am a friend wrote: »

I know well but aren't you better off knowing? Worst case scenario he says no but then you are free to meet someone else. Best of luck and let us know how you go.

yes you probably are right, I'l keep ye updated!