is he not into me, or is it just not that important to him

LegacyUser

First time poster....

I met a fantastic guy about 2months ago, and we’ve really hit it off! We’ve been on countless dates, usually meeting every second or third evening, and our dates are brilliant and it seems like we’re a couple now…

Anyway my question is…I slept with this guy about three weeks in, it didn’t really go to plan for one reason or another…but the 3 nights later it happened… and a week later again, it was brilliant. Just one thing , this weekend we had ample opportunity to do the deed again, but it never happened? We did cuddle and kiss. It sort of feels like he loves spending time with me, but not in a sexual sense? Little bit confused….? He is the nicest guy I’ve met in a LONG LONG time, to be honest its something I’m ok with, but just wondering is it me or is it just a little quirkiness? like is he not into me in that way, or is sex just not as important to him as most guys...

Elmidena

As I don't know him I can only guess, but here's my 2c FWIW

He might be under stress or something at work/home/whatever and too exhausted to be up for anything, or maybe he just wants to show you he's not just seeing you for sex as a boat lots of girls seem to wind up in after they've consummated a relationship. Maybe he's having second thoughts, but if that were the case I doubt he'd still meet you to kiss and cuddle. I'd see how the lay of the land is on your next meeting, and if you're still getting the brush off, try joke about it to see his reaction. He might have just been trying to show you that you mean a lot to him and oblivious that it looks like he's brushing you off

LaHaine

I wouldnt worry about it. Contrary to popular belief men dont always want to jump on their girlfriends. Id take it as a good sign that hes happy cuddling with you.

Dont over think it anyway!

jellybean2010

thanks for your replies! we'll wait and see