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The Brother

  • 17-09-2011 7:05pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Ok, I'll keep it short.

    Last Stephens Night I went out with a freind of mine as well as her other friend well call her Jane, Janes boyfriend and his brother.

    That night I ended up with the brother and we had fun..and we met up a few times after that. We eventually drifted as I seen nothing between us and he now has a new girlfriend.

    Jane and the boyfriend have since broken up and it seems he has taken a shine to me. He texts every day and has asked me out a few times but I have resisted but am considering going on a date with him.

    My question is, is it a bad idea since I have already been with his brother??

    Jane and myself were only friends as we had mutual friends so I really have no feelings towards her, and I have a feeling the brother won't care either since his is now with someone else!


Comments

  • #2
    fungun
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,120 ✭✭✭fungun


    there is nothing 'wrong' with it, but does he know you were with his brother?

    Some people might not mind, but I have to say I couldnt have a serious relationship with someone who had slept with my brother.


  • #3
    qwertytlk
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 747 ✭✭✭qwertytlk


    I dont see anything wrong with it... But, does he know you had a thing with his brother? If he doesnt it could cause some problems or tension... If you like him and he doesnt know then maybe casually drop it into conversation-if your in a situation where this would be possible. And if he does know and hasnt mentioned it and is still pursuing you, then go for it and domt worry as he clearly isnt (if its the case he knows) have fun whatever you decide!


  • #4
    Firetrap
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,442 ✭✭✭Firetrap


    I don't see anything wrong with it either but I do think he'd need to know about you previously seeing his brother. Just in case.


  • #5
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Yeah he knew about me and the brother as he was out that night!

    Don't know why I'm making a big deal of it but just wanted to get others opinions.

    Thanks for all your replies!


  • #6
    Zen65
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,630 ✭✭✭Zen65


    sessed wrote: »

    My question is, is it a bad idea since I have already been with his brother??

    It depends on what you want to come of it.

    Would he sleep with you knowing that you've slept* with his brother? - Probably.

    Would he have a serious relationship with you knowing that you'd been with his brother? - Maybe, but less likely. It depends on his relationship with his brother.

    Would he marry you knowing you'd been with his brother? - Almost certainly not.

    *excuse me if that's presumptuous of me, I'm picking it up from another poster here who you didn't correct.


    Be at peace,

    Z


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