Feel disgusted by this

LegacyUser

Hi years ago i met a girl on fb who was 17 and doing her leaving at time.we where close and had an sexual relationship,we then grew apart and never spoke again.shocking part i was 23 at the time and in a job.

looking back now i feel like a right perv for what i did .

Ickle Magoo

You didn't break the law, and there's nothing you can do about it now anyway, I'd stop beating yourself up about it. If it makes you feel like a right perv then make sure not to have sexual relations with any more 17yr olds and move on...you can't punish yourself for the legal but arguably unwise decisions we make through-out life, we can just accept our faults and learn from them.

All the best. :cool:

woodchuck

I don’t think you’ve anything to feel guilty about, unless there are details you’re leaving out? Presumably you weren’t seeking out a young woman to take advantage of.

It sounds like you were 2 consenting adults of legal age, so no problems there. Maybe she was mature for her age and/or you were immature for your age. If age wasn’t an issue at the time why stress over it now? Maybe the age you’re at now being with a 17 year old would feel pervy, but it wasn’t at 23. Don’t beat yourself up about it. Unless you did something specific you feel you need to apologise to her for, then I’d just leave it behind you and move on.

LegacyUser

thank you all for kind words,yes maybe i am over worrying a little because im am older now thinking back on it,i will put this behind me.

thank you all can be locked.