Is he trying to tell me something??

LegacyUser

I'll try keep this short..been seeing a guy for a couple of months, all good, in contact every day, he initiates as much if not more, usually him to ask me out etc etc.
Last couple of days he's been in contact but not quite as much...but still every day..
We arranged to see each other tonight...he txt to say he couldnt make it..I said no worries hope everythings ok..he said everything was fine and he'd call me..couple more texts went between us and then he called me a bit later on..he called to tell me in detail about how he has to work tonight and thats why he cant see me..

I find this strange...he could of just text saying he was working..I also mentioned when on the phone that I would be home alone one of the nights this weekend..usually he would suggest coming to see Me..nothing..however he did mention a weekend away we have booked for the following weekend.

Im very confused here dunno am I reading into it too much or should I go with my instincts here?

Honest opinions would be really appreciated :-)

Katgurl

Confusseled wrote: »

I'll try keep this short..been seeing a guy for a couple of months, all good, in contact every day, he initiates as much if not more, usually him to ask me out etc etc.
Last couple of days he's been in contact but not quite as much...but still every day..
We arranged to see each other tonight...he txt to say he couldnt make it..I said no worries hope everythings ok..he said everything was fine and he'd call me..couple more texts went between us and then he called me a bit later on..he called to tell me in detail about how he has to work tonight and thats why he cant see me..

I find this strange...he could of just text saying he was working..I also mentioned when on the phone that I would be home alone one of the nights this weekend..usually he would suggest coming to see Me..nothing..however he did mention a weekend away we have booked for the following weekend.

Im very confused here dunno am I reading into it too much or should I go with my instincts here?

Honest opinions would be really appreciated :-)

Impossible to say. You might be worrying over nothing or your instincts might be correct. If I was guessing I'd say the initial addiction phase is passing and he's eembering he used to have a life and probably has let things slide as he's been so wrapped up with you. The only thing you can do now is give him some space and see how next couple of weeks pan out.

It doesn't sound like you've cause for worry though.

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He was doing the right thing!

Instead of breaking the arrangements by text, he rang to explain to you. He was busy in work, and said he'd call you later (probably on his break, or a quick step outside to phone you), which he did.

You have since then booked a weekend away.

There is absolutely nothing he is "trying to tell" you.

He was busy in work, he called you when he got a quiet minute, and he's booke a weekend away with you.

Why didn't you suggest that he come down to you on the night you are alone. Why are you waiting for him to suggest it?