advice!!

LegacyUser

Right here it goes, Was out a few months ago with a few mates and got talking to a girl we got on well I thought anyways we added each other on fb and got talking basically we spoke everyday on fb about everything. I've seen her out a few times and we spoke and got on alright thing is I let on i'm a bit of a lad but I am really shy and nervous around girls. I've been invited to a party which is on Sunday in Cork and she will be there. Thing is I really like her but tbh I don't know how to tell her or what to do!

Trod

ah james if you really like her just go the party have the craic with her try and have a laugh and see how things go from there....You dont have to tell her right away that you really like her just try get to know her a bit better in person instead of just facebook.:o

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she will know if you like her don't worry about saying the words.
Remember no two people feel the same way about each other.
So she may or may not be interested in taking it further. So play it cool and just ask her casually to join you doing something you might both enjoy. Remember in your life there will be many women so don't be shy always push your self just a little bit.

LegacyUser

Ok so just back the party there this morning! Anyways I got talking to her and we had good crack. I asked her did she fancy going to the cinema in Cork but she said maybe shes starting first year in college tomorrow in Galway and shes worried about setting in but in a couple of weeks she might be up for it so?

LegacyUser

Look I know where she's coming from starting college and all she told me that she's a bit nervy about starting college and that it would probably take some time for her to settle. We text everyday on fb and have a good bitta craic when out. I really like the girl but me heads all over the place don't know what to do

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James__12 wrote: »

Look I know where she's coming from starting college and all she told me that she's a bit nervy about starting college and that it would probably take some time for her to settle. We text everyday on fb and have a good bitta craic when out. I really like the girl but me heads all over the place don't know what to do

You pushed your self out there and well done
It would seem she is busy with move and collage so you have done it all right at your end. Keep chatting on FB but if the seeds you planted are to bear fruit you need to remain a cool guy and not pressure the girl
Remember the more needy and wanting you appear the less attractive you will be.

In the meantime it's time to spread your net a little wider and get out there and meet new people.

Don't let life pass you by !

Ham Sambo

I think she was letting you down gracefully, time to move on.

fallen01angel

Hi OP,I think you need to relax just a little.If she wasn't remotely interested she wouldnt be fb everyday,so there's definately a possibility of something,but moving to college can be very un-nerving to some people,just give her a little time to settle,keep the contact,no pressure and when you feel that she's settling into the swing of college then offer the invite for coffee-pics is not the best 1st date area,and from now on please don't ever pretend to be a "lad" to any girl....the "lads" may on occasion go home with the girl....but they rarely keep her!!