dating question

celica1994

Ok i know im just setting myself up for riddicule but ill give it a go

Went on a date the other week that went well.. went on another date with the same girl that didnt go so well (got drunk and had to go home.. kinda embarrasing).. shes still on my facebook but we dont really talk anymore.. should i contact her or is it one big waste of time.. just curious for anyones opinion

TwoBirds

Well, the drunk thing probably put her off you a bit - but no need to tell you that I'm sure! If you like her, what's the worst that can happen by contacting her? As you said yourself, you've already felt embarrassed about what happened, so worst case scenario is she says she's not interested - you've already dealt with the embarrassment so nothing to lose!
Send her a nice message apologizing for the second date and tell her you'll be on your best behaviour if she lets you take her out again.

LegacyUser

Guess it depends how long ago the second date was?
If you never apologised for it the following day/few days then you haven't a hope IMHO.
Can only speak for myself but it's one thing a guy getting sloshed on a date with, but the nail in the coffin would be not apologising, so incredibly rude and disrespectful.

No harm in trying i suppose but it's too little too late if you haven't already said sorry, she'll probably just think you're just using her for a shag or something as you had zero respect for her.

Janet1986

I'd say let her go, she probably felt like crap and disrespected when that happened.

Let it be a lesson for future dates not to drink so much.

Sound Bite

You've nothing to lose but I'd include a very sincere apology if I were you. Just don't have too much hope of getting a positive response.