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  • 11-09-2011 12:18pm
    #1
    arial
    Closed Accounts Posts: 12 ✭


    Hey, I posted here a couple of months ago about my boyfriend of 10years going off on holiday with his friends to thailand (after we had just gotten back together and around the time of a 10year anniversary. We had plans to go away but basically he decided he would go with the lads instead.

    Anyway cut to now and over the last few months I have been seeing him from time to time even though I intially insisted it was over, Ive had the tears from him and the promises that he will be better that he has really copped on this time and that he will be better than every! That if we break up he will go mad yada yada

    As things are now my own mother does not want to see him and says that if I am seeing him she does not want to see him for at least another year until she knows he is treating me properly.

    And I don't even want to go to his house, to see his parents or see any of his friends as I just feel so stupid because of the way he has treated me.

    Question is do I give him one last chance? Or do I tell him to get on his bike?


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  • #2
    ManOfMystery
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,394 ✭✭✭ManOfMystery


    On his bike I think. I remember your last thread.

    It sounds like he's had his fun with the lads, come back to reality and now expects you to do a complete U-turn. If he had really cared that much, he would have made some changes before the Thailand holiday, not after.


  • #3
    I am a friend
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,479 ✭✭✭I am a friend


    Your family dont want him cos he has treated you so badly, you can't face his friends and family cos he has treated you so badly so why do you want to give him a chance?

    Are you still having sex with him?


  • #4
    Little Miss Lady
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 188 ✭✭Little Miss Lady


    You gave him 10 years of your life to prove to you he could treat you with respect.
    He hasn't. You can't even face his family and friends and I can totally understand why your own mother would not be able to see him.
    Obviously it's down to how you feel yourself but from an objective position you should cut him off now and move on to someone who will treat you well, life's way too short.


  • #5
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    You do know why men go to Thailand don't you?

    It's not just the beautiful scenery. Dump him and start having a bit more respect for yourself.


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