Why hasnt he called!?

LegacyUser

I have a feeling the following may come across immature and juvenile but I can't stop stressing!

Basically I met a guy 2 months ago and have been dating him since. We've been taking this quite slow, nothing too intense but we meet up once or twice a week. So far, i thought things had been going well. I enjoy spending time with him and hes indicated on a number of occasions the same.

Last weekend he went to Liverpool with some mates. Grand. The last time I met him (Wed before he went away) he indicated we would meet up the following weekend (i.e. this weekend coming).

But its half 4 on Thursday and I haven't heard from him!! Obviously I dont expect anyone to telly me why he hasnt called but to other people, is this weird? The timing I mean. Surely if you wanted to go out at the weekend you'd contact them before Thursday evening??

I know people are going to say "text him" and find out what the craic is (which I probably will end up doing) but still, its head wreaking!

I dunno what sort of advice I'm looking for here. I guess I just needed a place to vent my frustration at the way some guys carry on! I just hate the way I'm reduced to some desperado who checks their phone every 10 mins to see if hes called!!

I am a friend

Why do you think he hadn't called? Not being smart asking that btw...

I personally would text to say hi but not mention a date and would make sure I had plenty lined up for the weekend so as not to be sitting around waiting for him.

Little Miss Lady

Yes you're right you would contact them on a Thursday to make plans..
Why don't you contact him?

It's so much better than thinking and stressing yourself out plus you get your answer.
And guess what after doing exactly that myself today I can guarantee you it works..
It's not about being too available or whatever. It's about being mature and knowing what you want!

Best of luck

John Mason

Oh FFS, you have been seeing this guy for 2 months pick the phone and call him :rolleyes:

Miss Fluff

Text him and ask him how he is.

confuseddd

confuseddd wrote: »

I know people are going to say "text him" and find out what the craic is (which I probably will end up doing) but still, its head wreaking!

No, I would say pick up the phone and call him. Are you incapable or something? You can set up a thread on boards but you can't call a guy you've been seeing for 2 months?

tannytantans

Maybe you should have texted him to see how his weekend in Liverpool was?! No poinjt in leaving it all up to him!Send a text!

jenilou

how did it work out for ya?!