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Great guy, not so great kiss

  • 05-09-2011 11:02pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    Ok. I am seeing a great guy. He's hot, smart and we have lots in common. One thing though, his kiss. Its not good. How do I rectify it?


Comments

  • #2
    Kadongy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 732 ✭✭✭Kadongy


    Just be friends with him. You can't force chemistry. If you try to force it you just lose the opportunity to make a new friend.


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    But I really like him? :/


  • #4
    Colonel_McCoy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 751 ✭✭✭Colonel_McCoy


    ask him to kiss you like you kiss him!


  • #5
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Is it insulting to say "we need to work on our kissing" :-?


  • #6
    gerryk
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,726 ✭✭✭gerryk


    What is he doing wrong?
    I had a girlfriend in the past that, when we had our first kiss, made me feel that I was being savaged by a famine victim.
    I took control... pushed her gently back and said "slow down", and started again, but this time I took things nice and slow. She picked up on the cues pretty quickly, and was soon as good a kisser as I have been with.


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  • #7
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    It's a pressure kiss. :/


  • #8
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    I have to say when I met my husband 12 years ago as an 18yr who had only ever kissed boys I did eat the face off him. He soon let me know how he liked it. He shouldn't take offence..


  • #9
    ibarelycare
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 58,456 ✭✭✭✭ibarelycare


    What's a pressure kiss? :confused:


  • #10
    gargleblaster
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,425 ✭✭✭gargleblaster


    You could try to work on it but I would just chalk it up to incompatibility and move on. If I don't like the way someone kisses it's a huge turn off, but obviously if its something you want to work on then good luck.


  • #11
    fungun
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,120 ✭✭✭fungun


    ????

    you cant turn a shit guy into a great guy. But hey, he is already a great guy!

    But with practice you can turn a shit kisser into a good kisser....lots of practice and telling him what you like!


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  • #12
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    fungun wrote: »
    ????

    you cant turn a shit guy into a great guy. But hey, he is already a great guy!

    But with practice you can turn a shit kisser into a good kisser....lots of practice and telling him what you like!

    Exactly. I have been with a lot of horrible a*holes. So that is why I am reluctant to leave this one go.
    There is definately chemistry there. But I just think we need to practice the kissing.


  • #13
    vicecreamsundae
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 793 ✭✭✭vicecreamsundae


    it's easy to say you can teach him to kiss better, but what I always wondered was what if he likes his style and dislikes mine?!

    i think maybe make a joke about how you're such different kissers, and ask him to kiss you his way (and go along with it) and then tell him you're going to kiss him the way you like, and ask him to follow you. and after it, tell him how much it turns you on when you kiss your way.

    good luck!


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